this girl means the world to me, we're dating... when things seem to go pretty damn well, she always finds a reason to be unhappy and ruins the mood... what should i do about this??
2006-08-26 16:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by v1c1ousv1c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to talk to her. maybe her mood is a reflection of something else going on in her life and has nothing to do with you.
She might want you to be there for her but doesn't know how to open up to you about stuff. I know I'm like that anyway
2006-08-26 17:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aske her about it, but don't make a big deal out of it - it may be something between you, but there's a better chance that it's something else, and her time with you may well be her best or only escape from it. (If it was between you both, you wouldn't expect her to be happy most of the time).
So if you ask, and she doesn't want to talk, then don't push it. She'll tell you in her own time.
Also, when you say things are going "pretty damn well" - if I take this as it seems to imply, it may be that she's had a bad experience in a prior relationship, and you could be reminding her of that if you're making physical advances towards her. Try on the next date, not becoming too physically close, and see if her mood still changes. You will still only find out from asking her, just don't press the issue if she doesn't want to talk about it - you may end up creating more problems that were there in the first place..
Good luck.
2006-08-27 00:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of relationships. You are asking maybe the most unanswerable question for men. No matter what you do, how well you do it, how much of a great guy you are, if she is in a bad mood, just deal with it. Not to be rude, but if you don't think this will get any better, go ahead and walk away. You will save yourself a lot of trouble.
2006-08-27 00:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by biggballer79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a problem.Maybe she acts this way so you will try to do for her.Your best bet is to backoff and tell her when she can start acting right give you a call.If she doesn't call consider yourself lucky.
2006-08-27 03:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask her y she does that, maybe trouble is goin for her in life. talk to her mann, u could do it
2006-08-27 00:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by AMARI J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋