should I tell my gf everything and share with her my deepest desires like there are a few things she could use or hold againt me like my fetsih stuff?
2006-08-26 16:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all these are cliche's but help with a question like yours - what she doesn't know won't hurt her .. yr shoe fetish is...well...a fetish ... Love it or leave it .....LOL! Seriously ??!! Even if u feel u trust and lover her VERY much ...somethings are better left unsaid .... Its no longer a secret if two ppl know it and all that jazz ..Someone once wrote in my book -
Have friends,
Treat them such,
Never let them
Know too much,
For when yur friends
Become yr foes,
Then all the world
Your secret knows !
2006-08-27 01:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by localblue10866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you want your GF to like/love you for who you are. If you tell her all of your deepest desires and it freaks her out or something, Forget about her. She wasnt right for you anyway. better you tell her now and know her reaction then later when youre married or have kids etc.
2006-08-27 00:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by niransmami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vital parts of a relationship are trust and communication.
You should be able to share things in an open manner with her and not be afraid of her reaction if she truly loves you.
2006-08-27 00:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO!!!! dont tell her everything! If you tell her EVERYTHING then theres no secret, no anticapation, she knows whats gonna happen when it happens. Then after a while she will lose, feelings and start to feel distant, she wont be able to explian it in words, but it will happen....Best thing to do is 1st get some self control and if still wanna "tell" her, show her by doing not telling
2006-08-27 00:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by mr kent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell her since she is youre girlfriend. She'll probably understand how you feel, but make sure you don't sound too mean while sharing your inner thoughts, because they can come out kind of cold.
2006-08-27 00:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by lauburton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her things, but don't dump it on her all at once. Also, start with the less embarassing stuff (to see how well she is at being secretive)
2006-08-27 00:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by No O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has some secrets they don't share with their partner. They don't have to be dirty secrets, but some things are just personal!!!
2006-08-27 00:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by slikk pikka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you want to keep her, dont tell her. She'll wig out because she cant handle it......If you HAVE to ask this question, then you already know that she cant handle whats on your mind.
Shes a woman, so she'll lie to you and say, "Say whats on your mind", but believe me bro, its gonna be in the back of her mind, and come up in every arguement you'll have.
Sorry but you'll have to find another way to express your desires.
2006-08-27 00:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, never tell everything because you have a right to privacy about your life.......I understand that you wish to share things with your mate, and that is normal, but I have been married forever and still don't tell my hubby EVERYTHING......(He doesn't tell me all either, but we trust each other enough to know that it is all good)..... Take care, dear.........
2006-08-27 00:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends of how ou really feel about her, but if you love her and sense that she does too perhaps you should then
2006-08-26 23:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by fan1906 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋