why dont guys call chicks back,or they say they will call at a certain time & they dont?? it drives me nuts cause its usually the guy i like lol.& a guy always says we should chill somtime, or makes plans with you for the next day & he doesnt call you or get ahold of you its like hes playing games.but yeah whats really going on in his mind??
2006-08-26 16:57:21 · 8 answers · asked by hollistersurferbabex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is such a good question. I think men just don't get how we tick... nurturers love attention.. women are such creatures and men are cave men in suits.
2006-08-26 17:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh common question among sprung females. There could be tons of reasons why though. Here are a few:
1. Lazy - A lot of guys fit in this category. A phone conversation can be too troublesome for some guys.
2. Forgetful - I tend to forget calling people, especially on a busy schedule.
3. Shy - Some guys aren't the phone types. If you feel that he might be a little shy, you should make the calls.
4. Uninterested - Probably the most common reason why we don't call.
5. Playing the game - We know more than you think ladies. Playing hard to get can be very beneficial. Frustrating isn't it?
2006-08-27 00:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by mikeyclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I do not know! Me and my bf have been 2gether for a little over a year and he still does that same bullsh*t, let me call u right back or I'll call u when i get home or we'll make plans for the next day and when that day comes he's like let's just chill. U know how us females have our thing maybe it's just a man thing. I don't know.
2006-08-27 00:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us guys are more shy than what women give us credit for. Guys are just afraid of getting turned down as what women are. When I was dating I was shy, but it took my future wife to make the first move and it borke me out of my shell and the rest is history. I would make the first move and the guy you are interested in might just surprise you and will probably be interested.
2006-08-27 00:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by parker01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok cool here the deal, Women do the same to guys, its human nature to want what we cant have.....The best thing to do is turn the tables on guys, I know its hard to do, but you got to. I do it to women, its even harder to do with the ones I really really really like, but I jus keep myself busy, Im in law school now so Im really busy which makes it easier to do. rememeber, its the ones we cant have as easily.
2006-08-27 00:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by mr kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't call because he wants you to call him. Or maybe he doesn't think that you like him. Or maybe he's just a jerk. It's hard to say what's going on in his mind because every individual is different.
2006-08-27 00:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! so I am not alone..we should start a club..haha! If you figure this one out, let me know!!
2006-08-27 00:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by confusedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys don't take things as serious as girls do...Especially teenagers...But when they mature they start to change.....
2006-08-27 00:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋