I feel really depress and i even lost ten lbs. what should i do to not hurt my self more?
2006-08-26 16:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She left to college, like 500 miles away!!!
2006-08-26 16:59:50 · update #1
SHE HAS LEFT TO COLLEGE LIKE 500 MILES AWAY AND WELL SHE HAS BEEN APART OF ME FOR A LONG TIME 4 YEARS SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE 4 ME DOWN WHEN I HAD MONEY OR I WAS BROKE. ESPECIALLY WHEN I HAD PROBLEMS! WITH FAMILY AND LIFE.
2006-08-26 17:06:29 · update #2
Try this. Work overtime if possible, go to the gym & sleep with something of hers that she left at your place...That will help keep your mind off her & When she comes back you will have some money saved, be in shape & she will think it was sweet that you snuggled with her sweater cause you missed her so bad. Stay crazy in love;)
2006-08-26 17:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let sadness consume everything. I notice even your avatar is sad - you've told yourself you're sad, so you play into that role.
I know it's tough to live without her for a while, but this is a perfect time to figure out some cool things about yourself. What do you enjoy doing on your own, or with your other friends?
How bout taking a course like painting or another language or computing or something? How about getting a new game to play? Or making a list of your "To-See" movies and watching them?
You can feel content with yourself, not that everything you have relies on one person, and when that person is gone, you're totally lost. It will make the time pass by quicker, and it will make you love her in a newer, less stifling way, plus she'll probably be really pleased to see you this way! Really!
You can do it. Even when you love someone else, you are ALWAYS your own best friend, the only person alive who understands you the best. So take care of yourself. ANd change that avatar already!
2006-08-26 17:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by ear help! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you still sitting here waiting on her to return? Obviously, with you is not where she wants to be. I know its hard when you love someone and they really don't love you back the way you feel you should be loved but you ought to spend some time on self-improvement, with the fellas doing man things or find some women to date to get your mind off her 24-7. It might wake her up too if she sees you with someone else or sees you finding other things to do to occupy your time than sit around twiddling your thumbs waiting on her to return. Oh now you wait to tell us she went away to college after we've all answered! Get her a laptop and a webcam and you all communicate that way or text message her a lot. I find text messaging and letter writing to be more effective when expressing your feelings to someone than verbally because writing allows you to open up and speak from the heart more.
2006-08-26 17:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face the facts sweetie...let her go...let it go. Now, put on your shoes and go for a walk. Get out of the house, go meet new people, for god's sake eat something. Exercise would help, it releases endorphins and makes you feel great...less depressed. After a couple of weeks of healthy living and attitude adjustment, I'm sure the next great thing will come along.
2006-08-26 17:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Women and evil. Trust me. Its not worth crying over them. If she really wants to come back, she'll call. But don't answer the phone right away. Call her back like two days later. And when she asks you what you've been up to, tell her you've been going out with your friends having the time of your life. But either way, start looking around.
2006-08-26 17:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by wassup_people 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read *the complete idiot"s guide to toltec wisdom*. your mind can be a good friend, or as you are now experiencing , a serious enemy. it's your thinking that's causing the problem although you would say it's her absence. find out how the human mind operates and learn how to avoid a lifetime of drama and suffering. be among the minority of the human race that are conscious enough to get beyond instinct, confusion and programming. :-)
2006-08-26 17:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer a short tale whether, enable this one circulate. She sounds at a loss for words as to what she wnats. She has you up and down like a yo-yo. You deserve greater useful. You sound like a real extreme-high quality guy and he or she is twiddling with you. If she advised you to flee, then do it. discover somebody else. it is going to come around back.
2016-09-30 22:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is gone for another year serving our country and fighting for our freedom in Iraq. this is his 3rd deployment. be strong. anyone can make a relationship work even if you are miles and days apart. have faith!
2006-08-26 17:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by LeAnne H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she moved without telling u because she knew how hurt u were gonna b. if she did move without telling u, she just didnt want to hurt u. she a good gf and u chose her very well. im sorry u suffered. =(
2006-08-26 16:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by losers_only_club 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im sooo so srry but you need to get ovr that chick pronto no one deserves to feel like start eating b4 u turn annorexic
2006-08-26 16:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by babe11_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋