and no im not just being dumb about some boy or anything my whole life is a black whole im lost im cofused and i dont know which side to take in the wars in my life in family friends and everything i feel guilty sometimes and dont know what to do i get angry sad and my life is full of questions but i cant see any answers and when i look they disapeer!!!!
and when u see me laugh its all just a phase wont last too long till i remember what my life really is
that one string pulling me back from killing myself and ending my life is what ppl that say they love me will do i dont want to hurt mny mom my dad family and friends and i dont want to go on living like this i waited so long to see if things will change and nothing did!!
what should i do save me from my misery!!
2006-08-26 16:49:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, let me tell you that killing yourself is NEVER the answer! Don't do it! Your mother and father do love you and the pain that it would cause would be awful! The worst thing in the whole world is to lose a child! The pain never goes away! I don't know what your circumstances are but it really sounds like you are suffering from depression and need some help. Have you talked to your mom about the way you feel? Maybe she could take you to a doctor. Sometimes unless we get some medicine the pain does not go away on its own. But the good news is that you don't have to live this way! The right medicine can make a world of difference! Or maybe you just need some counseling. Anyway, there is help for you! People to talk to about your problem. My son had the same problem. Turned out he was bi-polar. This may or may not be your problem but a doctor could help you find out. He could also help you if you cant seem to shake this depression. Talk to your mom tonight! Sometimes we have to reach out and let our family know how much we need help. there is hope and you don't have to live this way! My son felt the same way you did, now he is happy and going to school. The whole world seems like a much brighter place. All it took was the right medicine and he is back to his old sweet self. You will be too! Talk to mom...ok? Hope you feel better. Remember, your parents love you. God loves you too! He gave you your life. Sometimes things look bleak but try talking to Him because you are so precious to Him. He wants to hear from you. He numbers the hairs on your head and rejoices over you with singing in heaven! You are so loved. I hope and pray you feel better.
2006-08-26 17:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't get despair.Life is to live. And live Happily.I can suggest u to take a piece of paper and jot down a few questions for yourself.
1.What is confusing me?
2.Why I am Guilty?
3.What is making me Angry?
4.What is making me Sad?
Once u list out ur questions,Try listing the answers for each of them
The next Job is to analyse each point.
U ask yourself for each of the point whether u can do anything to get over that.
If the answer is that u can do something to get over ,just do it.So that way u have done the required for that point.
Suppose if u think that u cannot do anything yourself and only others can do. Then just do not worry on that.
Many of the points listed U may not be able to do and the actions r to be done only by others.So in the nutshell What I want say is that we get despair for something which is not in our hands.
What is required is not to get despair and do what u could possibly do.By this u will get self confidence and learn to live life the way u would like to live.
2006-08-26 17:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by SR BODA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First at all, you are an important person for God. If you do not know him (it does not matter how you want to call him), He know you and He care about you. Sometimes, when we have a lot of problems and our self-esteem is low we can not find a motive to be alive. But guess what, you are not the only one. A lot of people felt in the same way and now they are happy and their live have a wonderful sense. I do not know you, but I think that you are brave just by taking some time and share your feelings. People around us love us, but they do not how to show that love and you maybe feel so bad that you do not have time to realize that. Remember, you are precious and valuable for God and for many people. Talk with a good friend, or a teacher or a pastor (at any church) and you will feel better. If you want to share some thoughts, please contact me. I will not judge you. I just want to help you. I will pray for you. Please, do not give up! One day you will laugh about this bad situation.
2006-08-26 17:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by inyamaech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can definitely be extremely difficult at times. The best advice I can give is try to be happy within yourself and zone the people out who are upsetting you. Find an escape through a form of expression like art, reading, writing, hell even scratching marks on your wall. I write short stories where I can make people do whatever the hell I want them to do, then I'm in control and that made me feel better.
But you are definitely too valuable of a person to kill yourself. (sometimes you have to be a little self centered) No, you don't deserve the crazy life you have, but you ALSO don't deserve to die.
I was going to kill myself like four times and I'm glad I didn't because I think about the things that wouldn't have happened if I did.
P.s, I'm happy to hear you're not being dumb about some boy, that's good to hear. lol.
2006-08-26 16:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same feeling. I wanted to kill myself when most of the people i love died. And 3 days after my grandma died i got put in foster care and was treated like ****. I know the feeling first hand. I've actually tried killin myself and i got hospitalized for it and it's not a fun thing. As a matter of fact last night i felt like killin myself. Ever since my granma died my family won't talk to me. I've been out of foster care for almost a year and i've never felt so alone. I have noone i can talk to. My "friends" haven't been through anything as tragic as i have and it makes it hard to relate with them. Right now i'm just tryin to graduate highschool. Even though i don't see a future for myself. not that i have bad grades, my grades couldn't be better it's just why think about the future when i dwell on the past and think about dying so i never feel that pain again. I don't suggest trying though cuz even if it feels like noone cares there is always at least one person that would be crushed if u died
2006-08-26 16:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by cherrylick_124 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I'm talking to myself right now because at times I feel the same way. All I have to say is you shouldn't do it because you never know what the future brings or what kind of people it holds. You may find someone who will help you see the light and stay focused on the goals you set. I have found someone like that and he really does help me, but he has also help me become my own person and depend on myself and not others to keep me going. I hope you stay on track and find yourself and who you want to be because I would hate for you end your life before it really gets going. I hope I here from you again and here that your feeling better.
2006-08-26 17:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by New_Insight_2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us have been there. The best thing to do is just to keep going on and living not for yourself but for you mom, dad, family and friend. Your life will get better. Talk to anyone in your family that will listen to you. The selfish thing to do would be to end your life when so many care for you.
2006-08-26 16:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God said that He loved you with an everlasting love. Jesus died on the cross for you and rose again the third day so that you would have everlasting life. God wants to be your Father and you become His child. No great love than this that Christ laid His life down for you. God said that He has a plan and a future for you. Read the scripture, pray find out how much God loves you and find His word to be true and promises to be true.
Don't be fooled, your Mom and Dad love you very much and do not want you to go on hurting. Turn to them and let them also help. I'm praying for you!!! :-)
2006-08-26 16:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by poet_by_nature 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely, need someone that you can confide in.
I am sure that your local YWCA could put you in contact with a competent counselor at a free or discounted rate.
Do seek help, because emotional pain can be just as crippling as physical pain!!
Best of Luck,
John
Listed below is a website giving some stategies for combatting depression.
http://www.newyorkcityvoices.org/2003janmar/20030307.html
2006-08-26 17:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by California teacher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide solves nothing really and just causes lifelong agony for the survivors. I do not have any kids but I can only imagine the unbearable pain parents must feel when they lose a child. By not killing yourself you are already doing something good and worthwhile. Talk to a doctor, they will refer you to a mental health professional.
2006-08-26 16:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by scarlettt_ohara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋