My mom tells me I can talk to her about anything and the moment I talk to her she gets mad and trys to punish me so I want to know how can you deal with a mom like that?
2006-08-26 16:46:56 · 24 answers · asked by Teyawanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u cant trust parents.
the moment u tell em anything, they'll judge u.
just trust your instincts. if u think they'll get mad.
then dont tell em.
2006-08-26 16:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you need a relationship with her where you CAN actually talk about anything because a day may come that you really need her. But if she can't handle what you want to talk about in a calm way then you are going to stop talking to her & she won't know what you're doing. Tell her you won't be able to ask her advice or opinions about things and you might makes some decisions some day that you regret because you didn't talk to her first.
2006-08-26 23:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sure she does not realize that she is doing this to you .Maybe you should tell her that you dont feel like you can tell her everything, because it makes her mad.But on the moms side of view maybe she wants you to tell her evrything but when she hears about you doing something you shouldnt be doing it upsets her.Just know that its hard to be young but a mom has a tough job as well. Good luck!
2006-08-26 23:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it has to do with your age if your like 12 and having sex or some **** i would be chearing your mom on....but if your older and still being treated like a kid maybe you should do your own thing and tell your mom like a few months after that way she cant get mad cause your ok. That trick always work for me
2006-08-26 23:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by AmAnDa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
approach her when you feel that ur very close that day n tel her that you want to talk to her.tel her that u no longer feel free to talk about anything with her even though she suggested that you could because of her reactions.tel her to give u a chance to state ur case then she could judge as she c fit afterwards but not before u have sad everything.tel how much its affecting your relationship with her and how u perceive her.if she cant learn from that find somebody to talk to her on ur behalf,afterwards if no solution talk to somebody else. be sure to tel her ur gona find someone to talk to.i dont think she will like that if she is a real mum!!
2006-08-27 00:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent myself all I can tell you is we are scared to death of the many things that can happen to our children. We all like to think that we can handle adult conversations with our kids but as soon as certain subjects come up we freak out.
Be easy on your Mom. She honestly only wants the very best for you.
2006-08-26 23:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by telling her that she said you could talk to her about anything.....Then start to talk to her. If she starts to get mad,stop. Ask her if this is up-setting her. If she tells you "yes" then stop and tell her when she thinks she can handle it to let you know. Look hurt. That puts her on a "guilt trip".
2006-08-27 00:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your mom dont what you around when she got perg with you she just was doing it you know making love then she found she was going to have you and i bet the daddy is NOT there. GEE how did i get that. IF I was you I be looking for a way out why be there if your not loved get out lov
2006-08-26 23:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodness. She sounds like she only wants to sound like she is being a good mother. Getting mad and shutting your daughter out when she is trying to get help is not being a good mother. That's kinda mean.
2006-08-26 23:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you know how she is only talk to her about simple things and if you need help with harder situations that you know she would punish you on go to another adult you trust theres no harm in that that way you both can feel like you won
2006-08-26 23:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell her that you can't talk to her if she gonna get mad and punish u.maybe find someone you can trust, a friend or maybe your grandmother.
2006-08-26 23:53:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋