I broke up with him 2 months ago, however it wasn't a clear cut. I don't want to let things drag on, but I couldn't help. I m still crying now. The reason I broke up with him is not because I don't love him, indeed I love him, but he could not love me the way I wanted to be loved. One minute he is all over you but another minute he is just pushing you away. I m trying to get over and move on with my own life, but I found it so difficult. I don't know if I should just cut all the connection with him, I don't have the guts to tell him not to call me.
2006-08-26 16:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need closure with him. You let out your anguish.. and get it out of your system verbally and out loud why you chose to break up. And realize it was for the best.
Keep yourself busy, but I know on those late nights... it's hard. It's so hard to heal... But please have faith, you will be okay. If cutting off your connection seems to be the best way.. you need to do it straight cut. No second thoughts. If you are.. you need to talk to him about it.
2006-08-26 16:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question! It's really hard especially if you're truly in love with him. For women, its very difficult to forget and adjust unlike men. You should not expect anything from him because you'll just disappointed if he didn't meet your expectations. And probably he is not in love the same way you do.Keep yourself busy, find a true friend you can count on, find a date if your ready, tell him to stop calling you. As long as you have communications, you will not forget him and go on with your life. I know its very difficult but you should move on. Time heals all wounds.
2006-08-26 17:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by dumbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. If you retain a confused, hesitate relationship it will continue to hurt. The only way to heal is to break clean and move on. Stay social, keep active with friends, meet new guys, and you'll be all the better for it.
2006-08-26 16:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be difficult to get over him but you have to. There are plenty of fish in the sea and there's likely someone picking up the pieces!
2006-08-26 16:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over one man is to get under another.
2006-08-26 16:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by slicksgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not going to lie to you but it may take another 2 months. you need to stop thinking about him by distracting your brain to something else. for instace, look at yourself and try to improve yourself, your body... go to gem or learn a new language or a new sport. it doesn't matter if you finish it to the end. the important thing is to feel good about it. to get a new soul you need to learn new things.
2006-08-26 16:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by yaz20100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get on with your life and find someone else to date the original sin will fade.
2006-08-26 16:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the very moment you break up with someone look down at your watch and say out loud to them "WAIT A SECOND" then turn around walking off and say I"m over it. that kills em
2006-08-26 16:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a closure. you really do.
2006-08-26 17:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋