2006-08-26 16:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this problem with my ex. Sorry to say this, but if he doesn't notice something wrong he probably isn't the right guy for you. That is if you have already told him your feelings.......
2006-08-26 16:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be, you don't let him know that by telling him frankly about how you feel whenever he is not with you. And the more you tell him about it, the more he will realize that you really love him because your happiness is somehow dependent on his being around.
Sometimes, men need be told about our feelings because they are not very sensitive to what they do. They just act on instinct with tactlessness that we need to stop them from hurting us without their knowing it. It's better to have an open communication with him with what you like and dislike so that a line will be drawn between what he should and should not do to please you if he really cares for your.
Perhaps also, your boyfriend is not that sociable type that he does not want to go out often because he finds himself to be out of place despite the fact that he is with the one he loves. If he is that kind of man, you'd better understand him and slowly turn him into a more sociable person by constantly telling him of its advantages for your relationship.
If that is not his reason for not going out with you, you have to ask him to tell you what they his reasons are so that you will be able to analyze whether they are acceptable or not. If they are, just understand him. If they are not, explain to him why he should feel that way. As I have said, all you need is an open and sincere communication with him so that both of you can fix that problem by yourselves.
2006-08-26 16:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may realize it but cant do anything about it you should tell him your unhappy because for some guys it may take forever to know a girl is unhappy
2006-08-26 16:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by d6g007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a mindreader and I'm sure he doesn't have a crystal ball. Have you told him this and discussed it with him? If not, do so. If you have and he hasn't changed, I guess that clues you into how important you are to him now doesn't it?
2006-08-26 16:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a man's thang. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
2006-08-26 16:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lovetoloveyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him why. Until then you won't feel comfortable in this relationship.
2006-08-26 16:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a man!
2006-08-26 16:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
add details such as age and location...
if your both young then underage for a car
2006-08-26 16:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys are stupid and inherently lazy.
2006-08-26 16:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Gabe R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told him? and i mean in a nice calm manner and not screaming, crying at him?
2006-08-26 16:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by carrie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋