How would you deal with the death of someone you were in love with?

Answer 1

Seems a pretty sad question to be asking on here especially on a saturday night hmmm...the only man i love married someone else and i havent been with him for nine yrs and i thought he was going to die in a car accident last year and it devistated me... so i wouldnt deal with it well ....no....and he isnt even mine...i went to the hospital to see him his wife was very understanding ...knowing who i was and all..very accepting because of his condition and no one knew if he was going to make it ... i still love him but it was then i realized that god gave him a good wife.... her... :( just was ment to be that way... but it still would have devestated me... but it truely amazed me the way she was open to accepting me .......odd hu

Answer 2

I did at one time and I must say it is not an easy thing for anyone to do. What helped me through it was forget of all of the bad times and everyone that has loved someone knows that everyone has them at some point. But to deal with the death of someone you were in love with only remember all of the good times you shared with each other.and that will ease the pain.

Answer 3

I am not sure I would survive it right now. I am looking at the real possibility of that happening in the near future, and I just cannot imagine my life without him. I know I will get through it, and I will be there for him until the end. But my life may as well end then too. It will never be the same without him in it.

Answer 4

When my boyfriend/bestfriend committed suicide I was in a terrible state of depression for a long time. I sought out a grief counselor and just talked about him as much as I could to anyone who would listen. Eventually over time it gets easier. You'll never forget them but the pain does go away.

Answer 5

You have to remember the good times. Many times people think about "Their last times..." and that's what makes us most sad. Remember the funny times and remember the times that made you happy. And try not to focus on the "lasts.." of a relationship.

Also, don't hold back on yourself. This person didn't die wanting you to be miserable. Be sure to remember that you should be happy and with time, ready to date or see others.

Answer 6

its ok to cry when you lose someone real close to you and if you didnt get a chance to say Goodbye it would be a good chance to say goodbye to your friend and you can always visit their grave and talk to them even though he wont answer. and put one foot in front of the other, take one breath after the next, if you fall down pick yourself back up and dust yourself off and live one day at a time. and it will take time to get use to it.

Answer 7

i've never lost someone i was in love with but i have so many people i've loved and worst was my son when he was 21 but life goes on and you live it one day at a time and be there for thoes you do love

Answer 8

you have to think about the times that you had good with that person. you know, no one is going to tell you when to 'get over it' you have to decide that for yourself. that is totally something that you have to do on your own. trust me, i've so totally been there, and played that. it sucked. but i did not forget about that person at all..and it really pissed me off when people would see that i was upset and tell me to, "get over it and move on." it made me hurt worse.
my point is, is that you are the only one that can decide whether you are over him/her or not. good luck. im not saying that it will be easy.

Answer 9

time heals all wounds. i know u may be in pain but remember your loved one is in a better place now. keep the memory alive and take it one day at a time...you will be alright in due time :-)

Answer 10

omgoshh... how sad if that happebned to you i'm sorry it must hurt a lot the best is try to live and move on be happy but there will be times that you will be sad but it will pass