2006-08-26 16:19:34 · 38 answers · asked by meganycash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, you are "jail bait" and the older party will be in jail
2006-08-26 16:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its not right because 14 years old still sounds pretty young to have sex, especially if your partner is 17/18 years old. maybe you should wait to be 15 at least because that is a little older and it is not as far apart age as 14 to 18. 18 is like basically adult or very mature age and 14 is still a young teenager(or adult) maybe you should find a guy that is maybe 15 or 16. it is your choice whether you want to have sex with this 18 year old or not. if you feel its right, then go for it, you stand for your own rights, but my suggestion is to wait to be older or find a younger one. but its all up to you, whatever you want to do, its all up to you. good luck
2006-08-26 16:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its your life if you want to screw it up then go ahead but think of it like this what if:
you get pregnant
he leaves/breaks up with you right after or two weeks from now can you handle that
you get an STD/HIV/AIDS
I mean there are so many risk and at a such a young age if would be difficult to handle any of these.......no offense but personally I don't think your ready especially if your asking strangers if its ok.......no its not ok......no its not safe......and no your deff. not ready....listen your young and there is so much time for you to have sex. Wait longer........until your old enough to handle the consequences the pap smears.........the STD test all of that because my guess is is that half of this crap you either never heard of or didn't have any plans on getting done(pap smears) Think before you act.......realize and rethink all of the conflicts that could happen......if you have any other problems contact me through yahoo answers.........:)
2006-08-26 16:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On his part, it's called rape and he will go to jail....if your parents find out, they will call the police just like I would if an 18 year old wanted to be with my daughter. There is obviously something wrong with his thinking to want to be with somebody as young as you. Most 18 year olds are with girls their own age. He's just using you and he will break your heart and leave you pregnant.
2006-08-26 16:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes and more YES!!!!!!!! this 18 year old is basically a grown man and no matter how "hot" you may think you are, you are a child. what type of loser (him not you) would want to have sex with a child....pretty disgusting if you ask me. sex is a big big big big step especially for someone as young as you. are you prepared to be mother, or deal w/ getting an STD? if no, keep your legs shut and you head in the books.
2006-08-26 16:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes theres something wrong with that!!! the problem isnt so much that he's almost 18, its that you're only 14, which is WAY too young. you want to be a lot older, and in love when you have sex, maybe even married. if he's presuring you to have sex, you need to make it clear that you won't. if he keeps pressuring you, dump him. there are much better guys out there who will respect you more than him and who are closer to you age.
2006-08-26 16:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by my_cat_rocks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah - the law.
If you like them enough to want to have sex with them, then you won't want to put them in the situation where THEY will be charged with statutory rape - the law will see it as THEIR indiscretion, not yours, even if you both consent.
If that happens, they will carry the burden of being a convicted sex offender for life...
If you don't respect them enough to save them the possibility of that, then you shouldn't be considering having sex with them anyway.
There's two good reasons - pick the one that applies most.
2006-08-26 16:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? If so, then yes, you're probably not emotionally ready for losing your virginity. You will no doubt regret having sex at this age later on in life.
Hold out if you can. It will be worth it, and hopefully someday you will understand why.
2006-08-26 16:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young to be with an 18 year old. what kind of 18 year old would deal with a girl your age. he is older and wiser. if you are going to deal with him, keep your eyes open. he has been doing this longer than you and he may be manipulative, be careful.
2006-08-26 16:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by chinkee104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can send him to jail because he's having sex with a minor. Also...I think he's sick... and 14 is way to young to have sex. Isn't it time for you to be more concerned about school or your bedtime than having sexual relations?
2006-08-26 16:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets caught he'll be treated as a sexual predator for the rest of his life, his picture in the Internet, etc...etc... You... enjoy sex and have a good time, But I guess he deserve it for going out with a child
2006-08-26 16:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋