Okay, Me and my boyfriend Love eachother very much. We trust eachother with everything we got. and Its the best things thats every happen to us. Well, we want to have sex. and Im ready and hes ready.. wev talked about the concinquences, and what could happen and everything and wev thought about it alot. But were sure we want too..
So, if we have sex.. Is it going to mess up the relationship, Cause theres tons of posts on here today saying sex messes up the relationship.. Or will it makes ours stronger && on another level??
2006-08-26 16:18:42 · 10 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will destroy your relationship. You know there are things that can go wrong, you mentioned that. Would you play russian roulette with your friends? Only difference is, at least with a gun it would end fast......hopefully. The odds of having sex out of marriage and living your life with that person until death do you part is probably about 30 percent.... tops. Are you only worth a 30 percent chance?
2006-08-26 16:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by cleazott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearie- you are way too immature. Your boyfriend is even more immature. There is every reason to wait until you understand everything better. It is so worth it to wait until you are absolutely sure and in a real mature loving and respectful long term relationship.
This all just sounds too sudden and forced and kinda silly to me.
Please enjoy this more carefree time in your life by keeping it simple while you grow. You need to learn how to have a healthy boy girl friendship first. This might not be the right guy for that. Respect yourself. It is always wise to wait until the high subsides and see if there is more substance, then when you are ready the high will be even higher if you know what I mean.
2006-08-27 00:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st & foremost u need to ask why do u want to have sex then make sure the answer u give is more than "b/c he wants to or it'll make our relationship stronger" or out of fear of loosing him if u don't . u & him need to weigh the pros & cons, together, of having sex. if u decide that the pros outweigh the cons then proceed but use protection & only do what u feel comfortable doing-good luck
2006-08-26 23:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U don't say ur age, so I have to assume your too young to do it without it messing up the relationship. This is heavy adult stuff, You don't know the half of what it can do to relationships.
Back off a while, and smell the roses. Time will tell.
2006-08-26 23:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe it'll make you 2 stronger and it really depends on how long you've being 2gether and what kind of boyfriend you got.
2006-08-26 23:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on the relationship...if it is serious, sex will make it stronger/better, if the relationship is weak, sex will help it to end...unfortunately, you often can't tell what type of relationship you have until after you've had sex...
2006-08-26 23:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by kemchan2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU ARE IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND YOU BOTH REALLY DO LOVE EACH OTHER SEX IS THAT VERY SPECIAL THING THAT MIGHT MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP STRONGER
2006-08-26 23:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by GREEN EYEZ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT REALLY DEPEND THE TWO PEOPLE INVOLVED. WANT
YOU BRING SEX INTO THE RELATIONSHIP IT WILL TAKE]
IT TO A NEW LEVEL, SOMETIME IT WILL STENGHTH THE
RELATIONSHIP BUT SOMETIME IT WILL WEAKEN IT IF THE
TWO ARE NOT READY FOR THAT COMMITMENT.
2006-08-26 23:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me sex brings something to the table that nothing else ever will in a relationship, if you are cautious and really into it why not?
2006-08-26 23:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by fan1906 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to ask yourself that question... do you think it will
2006-08-26 23:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by mtajkt69 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋