at 13 how far should you go with a guy?

Question

just wondering :]

Answer 1

ALL THE WAY! You'll be just like the rest of your peers!

Answer 2

Young lady personnally I think you are to young to go anywhere with a guy, but I know now and days its hard to say no. I went all the way with a girl at 16 and she got pregnant. I married her and had another little girl at 18 and now we are getting a divorce and I haven't seen my kids in months. I dont regret having my kids I just wish i could of waited. If you're gonna go anywhere with a guy just make sure that you are ready to accept the responsibilities of your conciquences. Maybe kiss and hold hands would be far enough.

Answer 3

Sweetie.. there is truly no hurry. Boys will do and say anything and everything to get you to do things you are not ready to do. I would hope you would never go further then a simple kiss. Get to know him... build trust.. again..there is no hurry.. If he is pushing something physical, tell him point blank NO. If he persists, walk away. I am the mother of 4 children and have heard every pick up line in the book. Be strong. Keep your values in place. You are much to precious to allow a boy to do things to you or force things upon you that you arent ready for. Good luck hun! :)

Answer 4

With the possibility of loseing your virginity ,pregnancy,& an STD, that may i remind you may be life threating these days. all could happen in one night, until youre old enough to deal with these problems on youre on, plus the posibility of a broken heart. Sweetheart I'm not trying to scare you r seem outreagous you r two young (and him ) to deal with all the complications I know how mature your generation is today but from the bottom of my heart listen to me stay young & keep life simple as long as u can so how far should u go maybe start kissing around 16 dont go futher than church , movie , skating always remember sin will take you futher than u want to go, keep u longer than u want to stay, & charge u more than u want to PAY. Beet the odds an stay young as long as u can stay focused on ur education,family,spirit An remember take it from old fool, from old school, boys will say anything to get what they want [e-mail] luv ya & take care best wishes

Answer 5

it depends on your beliefs. if you believe in abstinence (waiting until you're married) then you should go no where. if you are comfortable with the guy you are with, then as far as i'm concerned, kissing and hugging are acceptable. i'm only fourteen so i can relate. i havent had my first kiss or my first real boyfriend for that matter. what i'm wondering is, do your parents approve. if they're full of morale values and rules, then follow what they say. they're probably right.

now to answer your question. "at thirteen how far should you go with a guy"

it all depends on who you're with and who he is and his reputation. if hes known as a player, then chances are hes only looking for one thing. sex. as we all know, sex can lead to pregnancy. if you're planning on going farther than just kissing and hugging, then you need to use a condom and birth control. it makes the guy take responsibility and you take responsibility. there are a few help websites out there to help you ask your mom for birth control. even though i strongly recommend you waiting until you're married, or if you just cant hold out that long, until you've found that one special guy. for all i know, he could be it. its hard to know at such a young age.

i wish you the best of luck. i hope this helped and answered your question.

Answer 6

Thirteen year olds should not be thinking about sexual intercouse with guys. The extent of dating at the age of 13 should be maybe holding hands and hanging out of the mall with friends.
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Answer 7

Not very far at all.

First base. Swap spit. Play tonsil-tennis. Kiss.

And don't rush at the next bit because, if you have to ask a thousand strangers on the Internet how far you should go, you're not ready to go there. Fact.

Answer 8

At 13, I don't think you should go far with a guy at all. I think you need to think smart because you don't want to ever regret something that you did at a young age.

Answer 9

Eeeesh! Don't make a decision at 13 that could have life-long consequences. At 13, I wouldn't do anything you wouldn't be comfortable telling your grandmother every detail of.

Answer 10

At 13 you shouldn't be around any guys

Answer 11

only as far as u feel comfortable going-think about how your actions will make u feel afterwards & ask yourself why u are doing what u are-u r the only 1 who has to live w/ the decisions that u make in your life & believe me when i say that sometimes what u decide leaves u feeling like s***