2006-08-26 16:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by Rico 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could saying "i love you" ruin a relationship if it's said too soon?
2006-08-26 16:19:07 · update #1
Absolutely! You can scare people off by using that word. You should never use it until you are completely sure that you feel love and not lust or dependence. Use the word only when you are sure the other person feels the same way.
2006-08-26 16:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i tcompletely can. you definately don't want to scare someone off, and you want to make sure that you arent just saying it because of lust. when you feel like telling them you love them during normal conversation, your relationship has a strong base, and you feel like you both know eachother really well, then its probably okay to say. you shouldn't let the first time you tell then you love them be during making out or sex or something, because the'res too much risk that you're just saying it in the heat of the moment. love isnt a word to be waved about and said to just anybody.
2006-09-03 22:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not based on more than lust or physical attraction yes it can be said too early.
Love is a very important decison not an expression to justify fooling around.
2006-08-26 23:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because it could freak out the person. I know that my friend was going ouit with a guy who told her he loved her after 3 weeks. She was totally freaked out and ended up breaking up with him. I think if you love someone after 3 weeks or even 1 month, you don't really know what love is.
2006-08-26 23:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by AngelGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah not necessarly cuz if its said an d person has it in der mind dat dey do luv u but not ready 2 say it den it cud b comfortin. its not a wedding proposal its jus dat the person sayin it enjoys the person it is said to. ITS NOT D END OF D WORLD OR D BEGINNNIN OF EVRYTING.
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2006-08-26 23:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your love in other ways until your comfortable saying the L word and the other person is comfortable hearing it.
2006-09-03 14:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sugar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it can, those three words are said too much and never really meant, so it can definitly change things around....most of the time, ive seen it ruin relationships...
2006-08-26 23:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by carrie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It could unless you youre sure the other person felt the same.
2006-08-26 23:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes'cause one of you may not be ready for a commitment like that just yet 'cause of past relationships so don't say it just yet.
2006-08-26 23:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-03 22:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋