im 18 yrs old and i really want to have sex but im scared it will hurt really bad since its my first time...i cant take any pain at all...what should i do pls help
2006-08-26 16:05:28 · 10 answers · asked by alace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's important that your first time is with a guy who cares about you and will be gentle. It will hurt, but it's not the kind of pain you are talking about. At least not if it's done right. With the right guy, your first time can be absolutely heavenly. With the wrong guy, it can be the most traumatizing experience of your life. You really have to be very careful whom you chose. Don't do it just because you want to have sex. That's a recepie for disaster.
I hope you find the right guy :)
2006-08-26 16:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to do it make sure you let your partner know that it is your first time and to go easy on you. Second of all don't think about it so much, because it will probably make it worse or even ruin the moment or the entire experience.
2006-08-26 16:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just cuz you want to have sex does not mean you are ready I know you are going to hate me for this but you should really love someone befor u just have sex with some random guy. Belive me I was in the exact same place as u and so I just whent to a bar hooked up with a guy cuz I though i was ready!
2006-08-26 16:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the people in the world that have done it. It has never ripped anyone in two! Try inserting a tampon and u will see you survive. Just be sure to use protection and be sure you are doing it for the right reasons. It's ok to wait until your older.
2006-08-26 16:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue..so wait for the right time ....inculcate the idea of making love than having sex..it will help...
2006-08-26 16:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by AD^ONIS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if your ready...ive heard that most if not all girls feel pain their first ime, but that doesnt meen you wont enjoy it...dont do it if you think you should becase everybody else is...theres nothing wrong with waiting for at special someone
2006-08-26 16:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey Blue Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and it will go smoothly. if you are tense and scared, it will be very uncomfortable. ky jelly helps a little ....make sure u use a condom...tell us how it was!
2006-08-26 16:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by chinkee104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with me and well take care of it
2006-08-26 16:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mount your bedpost right now. That'll loosen you up.
2006-08-26 16:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact me i will be easy and gentle with you
2006-08-26 16:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋