we love eachother and we have a strong relationship but we are still wondering if we will always have a strong relationship. i don't want to hold him down because i want him to have a good collage experince but he says he does not want to leave me because he loves me. he is leaving on friday and we still haven't made a disision so please what should we do.
2006-08-26 16:00:56 · 13 answers · asked by mercyp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-08-26 16:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through this many years ago. We were 12 hour drive away from each other. We stayed true to each other. but then I was in school and working and had little less time for anything else.
I would say.....ieep it together until one of you needs to move on.
It is really up to you guys. And if he isn't the one hon, there will be a better guy out there. Life has a way of working out.
2006-08-26 23:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't split. Try the long distance thing for a while and see how it works out. The relationship may or may not survive the distance but at least you can say that you tried your best.
2006-08-26 23:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can try as long as you want. But college is a different atmosphere..and that seperation will be a strain. Especially, when you are both still young. If you choose to stay together..great..best of luck to both of you. I just hope you two are willing to have a stressful year.
2006-08-26 23:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call it split up, call it a Lil break to have the college experience, just until you get there, and if he moves on or vis-versa your relationship wasn't as strong as you thought it was... good luck.....
2006-08-26 23:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by california chick.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where is the college located. if its in your hometown then the decision should not be hard to make.. if its outside of you hometown long distance relationships can really be stressfull
2006-08-26 23:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you;ll never know how strong your love for each other is until you test it..this sounds like the perfect oppurtunity to test it..make it work
2006-08-26 23:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by bunty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just let things go and see if ou can carry on long-distance or not, try not to predict how things will happen
2006-08-26 23:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by fan1906 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is time for separation, so nobody holds anyone back, you sound like mature girl, you'll come out ahead
2006-08-26 23:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by class4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but your guy is going to be up to his eyeballs in p***y. He will say he misses you, but he will be getting drunk and boinking the first drunk, horny chick he can hook up with.
2006-08-26 23:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋