Has anyone ever been seriously infatuated with a waiter/waitress. If so, how do u tell their smile is genuine and not the " I work here so I must smile" type smile.
I blame the above question on alcohol.
2006-08-26 16:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by M Double 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would try and talk with her! Does she act or talk to you like she is just a server or is it more personal! You can ask her what she likes to do when she is not working? That should answer your question, idoes she mentioned a boyfriend or does she asks you what you enjoy?
2006-08-26 16:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but for some reason they tend to get quite infatuated with me. Not sure why - maybe because I am greatful for thier service and don't treat them like some other customers do - manners! Anyway, it seems to result in me getting many discounts, free drinks etc...
If you genuinely like this person, go in again and test the waters. You'll know if they genuinely like you, or its just a service thing.
Happy drinking! I'll be joining you soon.
2006-08-26 23:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she smile at other customers like that? That would be a good clue. Your right your question is dumb alkie LOL
2006-08-26 23:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stop drinking. and enjoy life without the artificial crutch of alcohol. It should be easier to find out about the server.
2006-08-26 23:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by theprez7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wink at her or slip her a small note on a napkin and see what goes from there
2006-08-26 23:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be able to tell if anyone is fake.... if she's really smiling not just fronting she won't smile while looking right through you
2006-08-26 23:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by cassey c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is a dumb question!
but alcohol does odd things to people.
good luck
2006-08-26 23:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they will stare and try to get multiple opportunities to glimps at you if they are really interested.
2006-08-26 23:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋