i don't know him very well and didn't see him very often, and he is going to college in another state so i probably won't see him until at least 4 months. the last time we talked was a few weeks ago. that was the last time we saw each other before he went to college. we have each others email adresses too. when i emailed him to tell him i will miss him but i wish him good luck in school he didn't write back. some other times i emailed him he din't write back either and i had to write him a few times before he did. and when i try to call him but can't reach him he doesn't call back. i don't leave messages on his phone because i don't know what to say and am scared he might not call back. i want to know what things to write in an email that won't scare him off but would encourage him to call me. we are both shy and i don't want to be clingy or shy.
2006-08-26 15:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by baby doll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me he loved me before he went back to college, but i keep feeling insecure if its a while when he doesn't call or whatever.
2006-08-26 16:05:26 · update #1
we hung out a few times together what i mean about not knowing him well is that i don't really know much what his interests are. and he just seemed to mostly want to make out and not do much else or really talk.
2006-08-26 16:10:43 · update #2
Ultimately, you've got to talk to him about this if you want it to go anywhere with this guy. And how well do you know this guy? Is it possible you are developing feelings too fast for the situation (not knowing him well enough for long enough?). Keep that part of it played down when you do talk to him, but tell him you're very interested in him and you've been thinking if you two could hit it off together by becoming closer friends to get to know each other better. And tell him why. Could it be that he's sensed this and it's making him standoff-ish?
2006-08-26 16:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. chick you sound so desperate. Obviously he doesn't like you. I am not trying to be mean or anything, but if you don't know him very well, you don't love him. You may like him a lot, but not love. Give him some space and move on. Don't obsess with this guy, because you may not see him again or get together again. He doesn't seem too interested, so I would just go look for someone else. You can still keep in touch, but you are being way too clingy. If I were him, I would block you. Again, not trying to be mean, just speaking the truth. And if you weren't looking for a real answer, you shouldn't have asked the question. =]
2006-08-26 16:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Shelby♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont know him very well how can u love him? u cant make him do anything - hes gootta decide on his own. u give him ur number,and if he loved u - he'd call
2006-08-26 16:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by lindseyy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u love someone you dont know very well?
2006-08-26 16:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already scared him off, leave him along, he must be scared.
2006-08-26 16:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't force somebody to love you. if he is interested, he will act accordingly. forcing it only makes it worse later on.
2006-08-26 16:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey he dont like you
2006-08-26 16:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere...
2006-08-26 16:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋