Well, I have a crush on my best friend but the problem is he's gay, so I know I don't have a chance. I try to move on and not let it bother me but the more I try the less it works. What's worse is that my step-dad won't let me talk to him because he's gay. My friend is really nice and he's one of the only people that would be there for me when I needed someone to talk to. I keep trying to talk to my step dad about how important my friend is to me but that just gets me yelled at. How can I tell my step-dad that gay people are just as normal as everyone else? And what should I do about my crush on my best friend?
2006-08-26 15:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by ToraLi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend is gay. Your going to have to move on. You cant turn him straight, sorry. And dont listen to your step-dad. He's not even your real dad, and he has no control over who you want to be friends with. You are your own person.
2006-08-26 16:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your step Dad that gay isn't contagious! Talk to your Mom and let her know that he is a friend and that you want her to intervene, you had to except your step she should accept you can have a friend who is gay! Tell them he doesn't have to be around the house but you do enjoy talking with him and socializing.
You should respect that your friend is gay and you can't change him. Be grateful that you have a wonderful friend and don't try and change him. Look for someone available and interested in you and accept your friend the same way you want someone else to accept you. Good Luck!
2006-08-26 23:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop caring about your step-dad. If he wants to lead a life of ignorance, there's nothing you can do about it. As for your crush, the only thing I can tell you is to maybe talk to him or just find someone new who isn't gay.
2006-08-26 22:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Grace Adler? Because really, except for the step dad thing you could be her. Obviously, you are just going to have to get past the crush. It will pass. As far as your stepdad goes, have you talked to your Mom. Maybe she can intervene for you. He should be happy that your guy friend is gay, then he won't have to worry about him getting fresh with his step daughter.
2006-08-26 23:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm sorry that your step dad is such a closed minded jerk! There isn't anything you can say to him, sounds like he made his decision in his own little mind. As far as you crush, try to spend a little less time with him and find someone else to spend sometime with (maybe go out with a guy or two) find yourself. good luck
2006-09-03 22:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by aly_girl501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always seem to want what we can't have. You have to accept that you can't have it. You may want to define what a normal person is. Normal to a gay person is being gay. Normal to a straight person is being straight. Your step dad does not see gay as normal and there probably is nothing you can do that will change his mind, especially if he's set in his ways.
2006-08-26 23:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the crush on your best friend, forget about it.....................if he is gay then you have no chance, you can't try to change a person. You said it yourself you don't have a chance, you don't have the equipment so to speak..............to sum it up you step dad has a one-track mind, you should try to remind him that you are growing and still need to make your own mistakes to help develop yourself as a person and that he can't pick and choose your friends........but remember to be respectful. what does you mom think about this?
2006-08-26 23:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your Mom about your step-dad. She may have a better chance of convincing him to broaden his mind, or at least get off your back. Get over your crush on your best friend, lest you turn yourself into a stalker!
Good luck!
2006-09-03 22:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TURN HIM straigt. Let him know you like him and see what he says. I am friends with alot of gay guys and I know that a couple of them became bi. Try telling him and maybe he will give it a shot. Just remember where his penis has been and remember it is the best way to get aids. Good luck
2006-09-03 16:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by babykins1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay... don't be so stuck-up as to think you will be the girl to turn him straight. He likes penis. So unless you wanna get one of those don't hurt your and his feelings by trying something stupid and losing a friend.
2006-08-26 22:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Compulsory23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋