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FEEL SOO ALONE......BUT YET I'M SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE!

2006-08-26 15:45:41 · 23 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4 in Health Mental Health

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Dear Moon,
You’ve certainly brought your mental health concerns to the right place! The Y!A community members are fully aware of and do appreciate the intimate conditions involving your prognosis. Most recognized doctors in the field of medicine would employ a holistic approach to your ailment.
Moon, please begin your day with a well balanced breakfast to include an ample portion of fruits and grains. After your morning routines are finished, enjoy a brisk walk around the block. If you happen to meet any stray dogs along the way, it would be a good idea to antagonize the creatures in order to add some vigor to your workout.
Now Moon, the remaining portions of your day should be filled with interesting activities and new studies to keep your mind active and in balance, complimentary to what you have done with the physical side of yourself.
After loitering around at the public library all afternoon with a bunch of smelly hobos, you can appreciate a warm bath and time to be good to yourself. Begin to collect an archive of various music genres that you can resolve one day to enjoy after you get the rest of your chores done.
Moon, if after following my advice, simply take two aspirin and forget we ever had this little discussion.
Thank you, Moon. Have a great day!
Dr.Rudy

2006-08-26 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

There is no cure for crying--but you need to talk about whatever it is that is making you cry. If you are crying a lot, you could be depressed. And it doens't matter how many people we are surrounded by, you can still feel alone and lonely. I have a loving family but I still feel alone and sad most of the time. They don't necessarily understand what I am going through, nor do they want to deal with me. You need to talk to someone--either a good friend or a professional.

2006-08-26 17:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0 0

It's true that when you are depressed you can feel alone even surrounded by people.Are you bottling up a lot of personal feelings or events that have happened to you in the past.If you are you really need to talk to someone professionally.Crying is a cure if you are dealing with problems. It's part of the healing process but only you can be brave enough to take that step towards happiness and remember a lot of us that you don't know are wishing you all the best. Hug to get you started.

2006-08-26 15:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by tea cup 5 · 0 0

If you can find the cure for crying, let me know, I have cried all my life for everything, and I'm 54 now, even funny movies make me cry. Maybe you are surrounded by people who don't have things in common with you. I feel the same. I don't like being around people that are not caring and sensitive. Most of the people are superficial and don't care about other people's feelings. Just think about yourself as a very special person. Maybe volunteering, reading to children or what ever can make you feel good about yourself. I feel "great" when I help people. Maybe you can find something. Usually local newspapers have a page of places to volunteer.

2006-08-26 15:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia B 1 · 0 0

Aw, sweetie...... we've all been there. If you attend church of some sort maybe the pastor/priest/spiritual leader can suggest someone for you to talk to if they can't counsel you them self. Most communities also have a free counselling office that you might be able to get into. Most importantly you need to know you are not alone, depression is a growing problem in today's society as there are more pressures and stresses than ever before. Seek help, and keep reaching out to others.

2006-08-26 15:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by takeitorleaveit-loveitorhateit 2 · 0 0

It sounds like DEPRESSION big time . Some times the only way to deal is to see a Phycitrist and find out because it could be a chemical imbalance that can be fixed with antidepressant meds.
That was what I needed and now I am back to myself , well almost , at the very least I don't spend my days crying all day .

2006-08-26 16:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0 0

You may be bipolar. Are you an artistic or creative person in any way? That disorder seems to plague us in the artistic community. You should see a counselor and be evaluated. You also may need to be put on meds. Get some exercise every day even if it is just a brisk walk for 20 minute. Review your diet as that may need to be altered as well.

2006-08-26 16:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0 0

Sorry sounds like you are having a tough time. But I think sometimes you need to cry. You may be suffering from depression and if it's possible you should seek professional help. You don't have to suffer with this, life could be so much better for you :-) Take care of yourself, cry if you need to and let it out, hope you feel better soon.

2006-08-26 15:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0 0

write things down....u can start off as a journal entry, or u can just start venting everything out --writing freestyle. The point is to just get things off your chest. it helps. it really does.
u can also meditate, pray, etc just to concentrate.
realize ur never really alone. problems or situations that u may think are personal and unique may be similar to the experiences of others...try gettin a third opinion on things. see a counselor who can help you through things. the key is understanding. remember a counselor/psychiatrist's job is to help you understand what is going on. Even lil things can get the best of you. Once you understand what is making you feel blue, you can start to feel better.
Feeling better though, is all up to you. As weird as it may sound, feeling better is something that you must decide. You have to say "IM A GREAT PERSON. DESPITE SITUATIONS OR THE PAST, I CAN REDEFINE MY HAPPINESS"
i hope things work out. remember have a positive image of yourself =)

2006-08-26 15:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Perhaps you are depressed. You should see a pastor, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist about this to get some help. I would try talking to someone before going on any medication. Some of those medications have some bad or weird side effects.

2006-08-26 15:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Gwen 5 · 0 0

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