lots of money, car, diamond rings etc.
2006-08-26 15:41:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. divorce is NOT an option.
2006-08-26 15:45:45 · update #1
To continuously accept gifts from the person without honesty about intentions is just plain selfish. To further the ploy by marrying the person is even more selfish, and totally wrong.
2006-08-26 15:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't accept a marriage proposal based on material and physical things.
You only accept a proposal like that if you are in love.
If you say yes you will end up sad and miserable.
I mean what happens when this guy has given you every material and physical thing you ever wanted?
Eventually all that will get old. Material and physical things only last for a while where real honest to god true love last forever.
You want to be with someone you love.
Picture this: You marry this guy and all of a sudden he becomes dirt poor. All the lavish things he use to give you stops and he can't pamper you anymore.
You will be stuck in a loveless marriage with no money no meaning no life.
Personally I would rather be dirt poor and happy in love then rich and not.
I mean it is sad that this guy would do this anyway. He should be spending his money on someone who really loves him. He shouldn't settle for someone who wants to use him for his money.
I understand that he is giving you everything and it feels good. And you are probably saying to yourself that atleast you will have eveything you ever dreamed of. But surely over time that won't be enough.
You will start longing for love. And if you marry him you will pass up the love of your life. Especially if you can't divorce him.
Wouldn't you rather marry some one you love and work together to get what you always wanted.
In the end love is what you want. When you die who will remember you a material or physical thing?
2006-08-26 16:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours to make. Marriage is a life time commitment and not some thing you can turn off when things are like a hurricane.
If you are going to marry some one, there have got to be more than just material and physical things to attract this person to you
If you are young and good looking, you don't want to be some ones trophy wife. Just for you to get those things. Think long and hard about your decision as you are the one that know your situation best
2006-08-26 15:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know 20 + women who are kept mistresses. They are given apartments, laptops, jewellery, cars and $3000-$5000 every month. The rich boss pops by every now and then to make love and have dinner.
So i suppose it kind of compensates. And the ladies cannot go with other guys. So they are pretty lonely but that's their job. Be at beck and call for sex and companionship
2006-08-26 15:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, U marry that someone, you get rich for life but you are not sure if you will be loved all your life by this someone.
Why dont ya try to talk wiz him as to why he wants to marry you and not another women?
Why physical things instead of mental stuff? (At times, someone do it when they feel insecure...abt losing his/her love....thus they do all they can to make them all the way superior and to ensure that he/she doesnt lose his/her love.)
2006-08-26 15:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if I like them. If they are nice and loving...then I could try to learn to love that person. So far it isn't working. But it sure beats being poor and being crazy in love and jelous of your man.
2006-08-26 15:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. You can always get divorced and then it will all be split 50-50
2006-08-26 15:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't. It's a nice extra, but I have to have the love also. But I know some people who would, and ... For some people... It works out.. I don't know how, but it does!
2006-08-26 15:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one fortunate one. Look like he treats you like a princess. I would say " Why Not" . Build up the love and your life will be the most wanderful one. Like in fairy tale.
2006-08-26 15:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Things will make you happy for a short time, a true love will make you happy for life.
2006-08-26 15:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by k dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋