we only dated for two months.. but the feelings i had for him were stronger than the ones i had for guys whos relationship lasted longer. he broke up with me because we are 2 years apart and he didnt feel the same. everything makes me think of him. i dont want to date anyone else.. its been about a month since we broke up and i know theres no chance of us getting back together.
2006-08-26 15:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by sara901 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl I know it hurts. Have you ever heard the saying If you love someone let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be if not he was never yours to begin with. Yes. That is exactly what you need to do. That is something you need to do. I bet you are a beautiful intelligent girl that can easily find someone who will have the same feelings that you will have for them. Yeah right now the thought of being someone else is still painful to think about. Just think about this, is he sweating you? Probably not! Probably not even thinking about you. But do this, go get a new outfit, new shoes, your hair done, nails, pedicure, fix yourself up. Have him falling to his knees begging you to take him back. And once he does laugh and say you could have had this a long time ago. There are plenty of good men out there don't waste your time on one. It takes a couple of sour apples to find that sweet one.
2006-08-26 15:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a total loser if the excuse he came up with to break up with you was the age difference. Girrrrl, you deserve better and you know it. He lost something good and he's at fault. I mean c'mon, of all the reasons to say.. Age? Age doesn't matter when it comes to love and whatnot. Love doesn't discriminate. Then again, everything happens for a reason right? Maybe this happened because he didn't do anything to deserve you, and that you're better off without him. To help make the adjustment a little easier, try and get rid of the things that remind him of you.. like pictures or cards, gifts and notes, those kinds of things. I guarentee you if those things aren't around you, you'll feel a lot better. MOST DEFNITELY you'll find someone else, someone better who wouldn't give a rat's butt about how many years are apart you guys are. All that would matter would be the love and that's it. Get over him!
2006-08-26 22:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be such a downer, but he's not thinking of you. If he did he'd still be with you. It's a shame when one person has stronger feelings for another, think about it he's probably boning some girl right now. Only solice I could offer you is "Everybody plays the fool... sometime, theres no exception to the rule, you cry for someone today next time they'll be crying for you."
2006-08-26 22:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE MONTH is such short ammount of time :-D You will be over him sooner than you think. I have been separated for over two years, and despite having had some dates I am yet to 'get over it'.
It was just a short affair. Trust me, there are pains who hurt deeper than this. You will be over on the blink of an eye. I wish you all the luck.
2006-08-26 22:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. I have been there and it has nothing to do with how long you dated. It has to do with the importance you placed on the relationship. You just have to get busy having a life and moving on and one day you will realize that you are over it. Good luck.
2006-08-26 22:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by sosickofred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on y yah'll broke up i mean i aint good at dis stuff but i think u should move on cuzz u dont want 2 send the rest of ur live thinkin about sumbody that probley dont think bout u
2006-08-26 22:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by babi_balla06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little more time, before you know it you'll think less and less about him, things will not remind you of him as much. It just takes time. Time does not heal, but it does make the hurt more bearable. Find friends to go hang out with keep yourself busy. He wasn't good enough for you anyway.
2006-08-26 22:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people always say that time heals all wounds. it does but slow as hell. i just got out of a 4 month relationship with someone i had VERY strong feelings for. it hurt like hell the day i realized he was breaking up with me. he was 4 years older then me. i still think about him all the time but i know i'm better off. if he didn't want to be with me, then if when he decided he did i am definitely not going to take him back. it just isn't worth being with someone who doesn't commit themselves to you.
2006-08-26 22:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON. Go out, flirt, hang out with the girls. He sounds like a douche bag anyway. You're just infatuated. There's so many fish in the sea m'dear.
2006-08-26 22:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u just want what u cannt have , when a real man comes into your life and makes u happy , then u will realize how much you relly can love somone.because he cares what your feeling . the other does not.
2006-08-26 22:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by marleneshieldsc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋