My husband passed away 2yrs. ago July 14th. We were together for 8yrs. Married 30 days 13 hours 55 min. It still
hurts the same today as it did that first day. I miss having some one 2 go for dinner, movies, work in the yard, just talk to about the day we had at work. Or to just sit on the couch and watch TV. and not talk.
2006-08-26 15:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Maggie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maggie, I am soo sorry to hear about your husband and it is hard to get back to dating... are you sure you are ready for another man in your life? Sounds to me like you are still grieving and that isn't unusual dear as some of us grieve longer then others. Have you talked to a grieve counselor? or your pastor? Do you have an email buddy? sometimes it takes time to move on but if you need more time it is ok, take the time you need for you. email me if you like, I am always around and would love to hear from you...thinknlove@yahoo.com
2006-08-26 15:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by ouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that your love for your husband will never be the love for someone else. That will always be a part of your life, but has no reason to affect what your future holds. If you stay in the past, you will continue to live sad and regretful and it will only get worst the more time that you mourn in it. live happily and remember you'll always have a part of your husband in your heart.
P.S.- That has no effect in guys driving away. Guys completely understand your situation and usually respect that topic.
2006-08-26 22:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
Maybe start little by little. It doesn't have to be dating right away. Maybe go to more parties, talk to new people. Maybe someone will be interesting and easy-going enough to meet over a cup of coffe one day. You still don't have to date him right away. I know what may be hard: you maybe thinking, what this stranger, in place of my husnad? No, just not the same. Well, don't let yourself think it that direction. Just talk to this person, don't imagine too much. I think you need to be around new people more.
2006-08-26 22:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your loss.
I know how being alone feels but if you want to start dating again you must overcome your greef. That doesn't mean you should forget about what you miss, it jest means you cann't give up on hope.
2006-08-26 22:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by JcB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your lose and thats a good question and i wish i had your answer but i'd say you need to to get on with your life except and be happy for what you had and i know he wouldn't want you to just sit around and miss out on life
2006-08-26 22:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry for your lost.. he would of wanted for you to be happy.. try making new friends and get your live back in order
2006-08-26 22:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋