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My fiance would like to move in next month, but my 17 yr old son is having a rough time right now with school and etc. I have only been divorced a year. I told my fiance we should wait a little longer, but now he feels abandoned and hurt. Thinks I do not love him. Thinks my son runs my life. He would not talk to me about this for a day or so, and when he did, told me a dream about another lady that married and hand teenagers and it worked out fine. Then he got angry and was swearing. I said I need time, like at least 6 months. He said that was too long. We hung up a with the thought of talking tomorrow. Most of you will probably side with me, but is there any reason to side with him? I need to know

2006-08-26 14:55:16 · 5 answers · asked by anny 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Your kids come first. I see his side of things too but he needs to understand that you have a human life in your hands and that is your most important task in life. So, if he doesnt understand maybe he isn't the right one.

2006-08-26 15:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by sosickofred 3 · 0 0

There is no reason to side w/ him. Son first, fiance second!

2006-08-26 22:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

family goes first.. im glad that your thinking about your son.. not all mothers do that..tell him if he really loves you , then let him give you some time..maybe he doesn't care about your son.. remeber before he gets through you, he needs to get through your son as well

2006-08-26 22:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

this is quite scary why he's so anxious for you to move in like that. if hes that angry he might be abusive. if he cant respect you and your son (who came before him) then he needs to get help and you need to reconsider him.

2006-08-26 22:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by sheepeshlysheepy 3 · 0 0

no, he sounds kinda spoiled

2006-08-26 22:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

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