how to ask a girl out?

Question

ok I am a 16 years old and I would like to start asking girls out but i do not know who to ask them out becaues I am very shy so can any one tell me how to ask a girl out if you want to know what I look like go to this link http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2237/1920/1600/Picture%2032.jpg

Answer 1

Here's how to ask a girl out. It can be as easy as uttering a few words or it can be the hardest thing you have ever attempted. It's all up to you.

Steps
Get to know her. Hang with her friends. Find out about the activities and hobbies she likes. The more you know about her interests, the more things you'll have to talk about.

Approach the girl you like. Try to dress fairly decent, but don't overdo it. For example, if you're a T-shirt and jeans person, wear that. Don't show up with button-ups and ties, because you want her to like you for you, and you don't want to give her any false ideas. Just don't have a million stains or wrinkles, and you'll be fine.

Engage her in friendly conversation. Say "Hi", tell her your name and make a compliment about her. Anything to start conversation.

Don't launch into your invitation right away. After you've been talking for awhile, though, say something like, "Hey I'm going or doing whatever this weekend. How would you like to tag along? I promise it'll be more interesting than whatever you had planned."

Say this with a small smile, teasingly. Do not use a cheesy pickup line! Think about how you want to steer the conversation around to asking her out.

Ask her out for something specific if she's demonstrating interest.

Remember, even if she says no, don't take it personally. Still make an effort to hang out with her and get to know her. Once she knows you better, she may grow to like you. Given enough time, she might even end up asking you out.

If it is the first time you're talking to her, simply say you like her.

Honestly, gently and calm. You can't make anyone like you. If she doesn't react nicely, then let her go, she was not the one.

Tips
Get to know her well. The more you know about her, the better.

You might find out that you don't really like her that way.

Be nice and treat her with respect. This is a must. If you can't treat a woman right, don't even bother trying. You're just going to end up hurting both of you.

Go out with a group of people to somewhere fun. Make sure all the people are people she likes and will get along with, you want to make her feel comfortable. At the end, pull her aside, and just do it! If you cant do it right then, ask her something to put her at ease and make her feel like you care, like "Was this fun?" "Did you like hanging out with your friends" etc. Then ask her!Say something like "We should do stuff like this more often."

Girls love to be complimented by guys. Most girls love attention from the opposite gender! It's not hard. Start with some simple things, like saying her hair looks nice or that you think she's funny.

Be kind. Most girls do not want some hot-shot who thinks he's

God's gift to women.

Be calm and confident. If you're sweating and stuttering, that girl will feel nervous about going out with you. We want guys that are confident, but not cocky.

Do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel confident, whether it's getting a haircut, making sure your breath smells good, or something else.

Warnings
Above all, do it in person. It is not romantic at all on the internet, its barely tolerable on the phone. But try to do it in person. Look into her eyes too, unless she looks away. Don't stare, but continue to look at her face. If you are really shy, you could try a handwritten note. Try to stick around after giving it to her though.

Keep your hands to yourself! Trying to get physical with a girl right away just tells her that you consider her to be an object and not an actual person.

Be persistent, but not too persistent. If she turns you down gently, then she's politely telling you she's not interested. If she flat out refuses, back away. You don't want any girl to think you're a stalker..

If you have to ask her out through a friend, you will get a no by default. Girls do not enjoy hearing "hey! I'm asking you out for (Name of guy). He doesn't like you enough to overcome his lack of confidence" And they will hear this regardless of how tactful your friend is.

Answer 2

First of all you socially awkward piece if rhinoceros **** get a ******* life I can't get over the fact that you asked this question you're probably a fat jew that doesn't deserve a girlfriend, but lucky you I'm feeling kind and I'll help a brother out. First off you need to pick out a girl worth shoving your pork sword into. Once you have chosen the lucky lady you must approach with confidence and remember not to pop a stiffy as you approach this delectable human. If you do it will be a humiliating and almost always a turn down. Once you have successfully approached this specimen with being as hard as a rock continue to make eye contact and no not with her juggs. Avoid awkward small talk and stuttering or she will think your a tard. Once you pop the question don't look desperate even though you are you lousy sack of smashed assholes. If she says yes don't celebrate in front if her act like you don't even care. If she says no slit her ******* throat and move on with shitty *** life

Answer 3

The link doesn't work. Try to ask her when her friends or your friends aren't like...flocking around you. Just be forward about it. Ask her if she wants to hang out, so it'll sound casual, but also make sure she knows that you mean it as a date. Because I've been confused about it MANY TIMES and those relationships didn't last very long xP

Answer 4

First, you gotta beat the shyness.......you gotta talk to girl before you ask her out......build commonalities and give her a positive impression.......

Then, you have two options......

1. You can keep it casual.......tell her to come shopping with you, or grab some food together or rollerblading or hang out at the beach....this is a nice and fluffy approach, i m guessing more suitable for a shy guy like you

2. Suggest you guys party some time.....grab some chronic or booze or both......find a tight crib, get some peeps together and do it up......drive to the beach and party.....teenage bitches have limited options.....if you can broaden there horizons....expand their world......extend their boundaries.....there up for it....they want excitement, they wanna have fun, and these lil hos' wanna ****...... they ll wanna hangout out one on one after they ve party with you......they ll associate fun, excitement with you

.....just don t knock someone up, junior

Option #2 will get you A to B faster.....

have a great day!!

Answer 5

All you gotta do is ask. "Do you want to go to a movie on Friday" is a good example. There is no secret, there are no magic words. Just suck in your gut, muster up the courage and go for it! Good luck dude.

By the way, your link doesn't work.

Answer 6

Hay wat up.my suggestion is for a friend(cause if u ask a gurl from the street that u just meet you'll seem crazy)
so when u start a conversation with a gurl that u know and like, like in the middle of the conversation or so.then say : hey so i gotta run, wanna meet again somewhere?and if she says yes then u got yourselve a date
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Answer 7

first of all........you have to have confidence.....a girl can tell when a male is confident and sure of himself......and dont practice what your gonna say and if she turns you down do not...i repeat....do not show her how hurt you are because 9/10 times she'll say yes cuz she feels bad for you and you dont want a pitty date...ya know? and just be natural and smooth.......find out what type of things shes' into and base ya date on that and you should end up with a date.....if u have any questions just let me know on my messenger or what ever

Answer 8

just ask em, the worst tey can say is no
, but i was like you when it came to girls, start with hello, just say hi to em, then look into their eyes, i know its hard, but try not to look away, if your smooth at all theese, moove on to comlimens, dont studder, and look em dead in the eye and tell em their beautiful, strangers even, the more you practice the easeier it is, the ask em out, you can YIM me at this adress, for tips, or aim is SconeHead69

Answer 9

take all that pressure off guy ask a bunch of friends to go to the movies or an activity four or six of you would go to and then its easier after that first time a second date is easier

Answer 10

Be romantic if your shy start writing little notes such as saying "Want to go get an icé cream afterschool."
But dont send the notes during class!

Answer 11

link doesn't work