i'm really upset....my boyfriend said he wants to see other people .....i'm moving into a house that everytime i get in there i get sick.... my sister and me are being coming inmeshed(we are geting too close) she is pressuring me to do things i dont feel are okay. i feel like shes using me for my items(clothes, pens, room) i'm soo mad.......WHAT SHOULD I DO....I NEED TO DE-STRESS......I'M AFRIAD I'LL KILL MY SELF SOON.(as a figure of speech)
2006-08-26 14:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
First off your boy friend is a jerk, and you deserve better!!! Why are you getting sick at this house?? Look, if you ever feel pressured by your sister or any one that's a sign that you need to get out of this situation! I have been where you are, I think, not fully sure whats going on with you. The bottom line is no one has the rite to use you ever!!! All these people, your boyfriend, sister,,,, don't let them get the best of you! You need to first take some deep breathes, take a big step back, and take it from there. Don't let your boyfriend see/know that he has upset you, he will realize by telling you he wants to see other people was a mistake, the biggest one ever!! Find someone who only wants you, but first take some time for you, be good to your self. Don't worry about your sister getting mad at you cause you don't want to be used! She is not concerned on you, it seems. Unlike this boy friend, she is your sister, so maybe try talking to her. Remember put your self first for a new! change!
2006-08-26 14:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do with your boyfriend is forget about him and move on. Find a guy who will treat you with respect and will love you for who you are. Never let your sister or anyone pressure you into doing something you really don't want to do. If she keeps pressuring you, put your foot down and just say no. If she keeps using your things, talk to her about it, try to get her to stop and if she doesn't get a lock for your door. Why are you moving into the house where you always get sick? If you can avoid moving there, do so. If you can't, why does it make you sick? Is there a smell, or a memory? Try and fix whatever the problem is, if you can. If you can't, find a friend who will let you crash at their place when it gets too bad. Also, if it's something in the house making you sick, you can always contact the Health Dept.
2006-08-26 21:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Ditch the boyfriend. He obviously doesn't care for you so he isn't worth worrying aobut
2. Talk to your sister. Tell her you feel uncomfortable about some of the things she wants you to do and that you feel used.
(It is unlikely that your sister INTENDS to make you uncomfortable but may be trying to get you out more or lift your spirits)
3. Talking about it will help your being mad.. You are mad because you are keeping it all inside - so it's time to let it out. This will De-Stress you.
4. Once you talk to your sister - you will have the answer you need and you will KNOW what to do. Talking will help YOU feel more in control of YOUR life.. You feel out of control when you try to keep it all inside.You didn't say specifically what she was doing so I can't speak to that. But I do hope I helped some.
5. At this point I would guess there is either something in the house you are allergic to or maybe it is just nerves. I get that way too when something is on my mind.. I feel like throwing up! and talking really does help!
2006-08-26 21:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over the boyfriend thing but it will take time. And maybe your new house has mold and could be why you're getting sick from it. Did you ever try consider talking to your sister? If you don't say anything you're more than likely to be pushed around. SAY SOMETHING!
2006-08-26 21:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try music, walks, yoga, anything that you used to enjoy to get past your depression. TRUST me that no other person is worth dying over. If you have to go to a doctor for some antidepressants, but use that as a last resort and make sure you let them know you only want this as a temporary, not a lifetime helper.
2006-08-26 21:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Stormi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont kill yourself. You will find some other guy that wont hurt your feelings. You should move out or get out of the house more often. Dont do things you dont think are okay.
2006-08-26 21:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by JOSEPH ALEXANDER A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself, please. That is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Do you have another relative that you can stay with? Maybe a Friend? Or your Parents? I strongly suggest that you see a Therapist. No one on this can help you, but a Licensed Therapist will be able to help you out. Good Luck.
Email me if you want to talk.
Love,
SherShadow
2006-08-26 21:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters forget your boyfriend!! You need to tell your sister how you feel and then move out. And find your own apartment. Or live with your mom or dad for a while. This is not how normal people live!! You could also get your best friend to listen to you, he/she knows you better than we do, so it would be easier for her/him to give you advice, since he/she knows your situation.
Hope you feel better!!
2006-08-26 21:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help...your sickness may be psychological...maybe the house represents something in your subconscious. Depending on how old your are...hang in there...life changes and good things will come your way. This only makes you stronger. Hope this helps.
2006-08-26 21:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by seanroyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well dont kill your self lol tell every one you are going to take some time away go some were like a hotel but dont tell any one what hotel stay there until your arnt strssed
2006-08-26 21:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋