ok...while my brother was off on a job he called me right b4 he came home and said when i get home i want to hang out wit you cuz i have alot on my mind...an i was like ok whatever...but hes home now and we havent hung out cuz his girlfriend wont let us hang out...and he is fixen 2 have 2 leave again...and he wont be back for along time...shes really getting on my nerves cuz its like she wants him all 4 herself and wont let his own family hang out wit him.so plz plz plz tell me what i should do!?!?!?!?!
2006-08-26 14:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by hipper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i forgot 2 mention that she was my bestfriend until they hooked up an she started blowing me off. an i think she might b cheating on him wit her ex but i dnt no how to prove it yet
2006-08-27 08:04:31 · update #1
Talk to your brother first and tell him how you feel about his girlfriend not letting him spend time with his family. Then, talk to his girlfriend. Let her know that she won't let him spend time with his family and you guys really miss him. She can't control what your brother can and cannot do and blood is thicker than water. He has just as much right to spend time with his family as she does spending time with him as his girlfriend. She doesn't own him and your brother is a grown man. Your brother should also talk to his girlfriend about that as well but it is up to him to do so. I hope my advice helps you. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-26 14:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother and tell him your feelings on this. Tell him you miss him. Don't blame the girlfriend...you brother has a mind of his own. Many men tend to blow off family in a new relationship. This may be where they are.
But if you are compelled to speak to the girlfriend, it would serve you well to be nice to her and perhaps even suggest all of you get together at least once or twice. That will be better than no time with brother at all....I wish you joy, dear one.
2006-08-26 14:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct. In front of her say, hey bro, did you wanna talk sometime before you head out? At that point he can decide if he wants to talk to you with her there, if he wants to set up a time to do it, or if he wants to just drop it. It is his choice at that point. If you don't want to do that you could always write a note to him and ask him if he wants to spend some time apart, and just to let you know when he would like to do that. You may have to accept he is chosing her over you, guys will want to be with their girlfriends over their sisters or other family any day, that is just life.
2006-08-26 14:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by n_of49p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the girl aside and tell her you and your family for like to have some time with him before he goes away. If she can't let him go for 24 hours, then tell your brother that you would like some time with him,without the girlfriend! Let him handle it.
2006-08-26 14:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take my brother aside or write him a note and gently tell him how you feel - without talking badly about his girlfriend. You don't want to come between them, but you deserve to see him too. Maybe he just doesn't realize this.
2006-08-26 14:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by mabell1025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U jus play more bold faced and hang out with him if they're going out insist that u go...... he can't always get a girlfriend but a sis is very hard to come by......
2006-08-26 14:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother to grow some balls and ask his girlfriend to leave for a while so he can discuss some personal issues with you.
2006-08-26 14:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what id do Id tell his girlfriend off. Like ***** you aint ****. Your brother should know first of all. Your brother shoulda woped her ***. But thats just me.
2006-08-26 14:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by whatchawant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him in front of her when he plans on hanging out with you like he promised.
2006-08-26 14:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a hissie fit in front of her
2006-08-26 14:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋