I don't know if it's normal , but I get sick of myself so fast. I keep changing my hair color every 3 months. I dress different all the time. There are weeks when I can't help it I dress like I am going to a fashion show (my boobs hanging out, my skirt very tight, high heels I almost always fall in those) just going to work. And I also seem to be attracted to different types of guys every other month. It's not like I actually hook up with all these guys but I always fantasize about them. Is this sick? Do I need help? Or does anyone else feels like me?
2006-08-26 13:47:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't really changing yourself. You are just not happy with the way you look. SO you think changing your hair color and style will make you feel and look better. And if you dress in skimpy clothes all the guys will want to go out with you. When you dress like that you are sending guys the wrong signals. You are telling them I am easy. Just be yourself and be happy with how you are. It not whats on the outside thats beautiful, its whats on the inside. The outside just adds to your beauty from within you. You need someone to compliament you for you. ANd stop trying to be other people. Be proud of who you are, and stop playing dress up.
2006-08-26 14:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take a good look at who you are..If you like what you see then fine..but if you don't then changes need to be made...When you wear clothes where your boobs are halfway out or your skirt shows every thing..that is dressing slutty..You can look good without looking slutty
2006-08-26 20:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you like and stick with it. Ask your friends what looks good on you and you may just like all types of guys. I;m sure it is not uncommon to get bored. It just adds excitement to your life.
2006-08-26 20:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same. I also get sick of myself quickly and want to change and I do change things, but sometimes the fear of changing overpowers the urge to change. ugh.
2006-08-26 20:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by XxLabelxFreexX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're focusing on the superficial=clothes, haircolor etc.
pay attn to your inside and change that. there's no need for you to be a new person. there is nothing wrong with what u are now.
2006-08-26 20:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and build up your confidence and find a style that suits you and that makes you feel good maybe be single for a while to try and find yourself sit down and write down your feelings about yourself and things you want to change about yourself have some "me" time.
2006-08-26 20:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound confused and you are confusing me. Go seek help from your family therapist.
2006-08-26 20:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋