I admit, my sex drive is below par, but when I dont feel like doing it and my girl kinda pushes me into it, it makes me feel like she's not respecting my boundaries. But, in the back of my mind, I am thinking- if I am not giving it to her when she wants, then she will go find it somewhere else.... am I paranoid ?
2006-08-26 13:27:22 · 23 answers · asked by yadedyah_dc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on the person. if she cares about you and treats your relationship like she should then she would respect your boundries and not go elsewhere. then again she could be the person that will go anywhere to get what she wants. it could stem from a low self esteem and she only feels loved by having sex. try showing her affection and that you care about her without having sex. also.....learn to f**k her brains out...that works for me....it slows them down to a stop.
2006-08-26 13:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep if you can't keep up ! You are not paranoid. She will get her satisfaction elsewhere and probably dump you along the way. She is probably right because you probably do not fit together anyway. Find your match and let her find her match which maybe a different lifestyle involving several partners.
2006-08-26 13:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by dashforstars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no youre not paranoid... we males are very concerned about pleasing our partners... see the word pleasing
destress yourself, cleanse your body & mind from unhealty things ie smoking drinking ect.
romance her movie dinner, something she likes or something silly
remember pleasing foreplay foreplay foreplay love is more than penetration and this goes for both.
talk way before about eachother needs and fears
perhaps a doctor can help if it is an errection problem more common than realized... look at age also
finally her eyes are for you feel good about that relax and enjoy one another
2006-08-26 13:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you're not paranoid, you should have sex with her whenever she wants it, you do not want her unhappy do you?? Really I have never been with a guy that is like aahhh not in the mood..most men are always in the mood, you need to find out why your sex drive is low!
2006-08-26 13:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by hahaha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may have a physical problem. I would go to a urologist and be checked out. Perhaps you have a low hormone level. Have a talk with her and discuss needs and desires....what more can you do?
2006-08-26 13:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some viagra and catch up, you are a lucky man. Get with the program or she will find someone else.
2006-08-26 13:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but ,, from a female who has a higher sex drive than my man,, YES BE SCARED,,, it's very very hard to stay loyal when you aren't getting basic needs met. Either get her a really really good bag of toys,, a girl friend,, or be willing to share!!!!
sorry to be so blunt
2006-08-26 13:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by B V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id like to know how old you are buddy, it seems that you are awfully young to be fizzling out so soon. i dont think that she turns you on anymore or you dont feel desirable anymore. there is no rule that says that you just cant pleasure her and be done with it. i think that you need to get on your job or you will be getting a pink slip.
2006-08-26 13:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No worries ! If shes hot and you can't handle her, send her over to me. Try eating down at the Y. lol
2006-08-26 13:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Trick69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not paranoid - in touch with the way it is. Rule #1 is if you aren't doin it someone else will.
2006-08-26 13:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋