alright so lately ive been going back and fourth with myself trying to figure out how i want to live and what i want to do with my life...so far ive tried to not really pay attention to little detail and just live life, when i do so i feel like more freinds come to me, and i get more girls, but i feel like im the same as my older brother, and i dont want to end up just like him . theres another side of me where i pay attention to alot of detail and am always making direct eye contact, when i do this less friends, but more true friends and i feel like im out of place in my family...can someone tell me whats wrong with me? i dont no what to do...
2006-08-26 13:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by jete413 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are young, a disorder that will heal itself in time. In the meantime, find ativities such as volunteering that require you to be concerned with others.....your problems will vanish.
Don't overdo the eye contact, those who react positively may not be normal, or may want to take advantage of you.
2006-08-26 13:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Stop being hard on yourself. It's a nice feeling to have friends but do you really want fly-by-night casual friends? If you want friends with staying power do what feels right, make the eye contact and be true to yourself. If you keep having to act a part to keep people eventually you won't like the person you've become and you're the one that has to live with you. It's ok to be different and you'll find friends that like you for who you are. Friends come and friends go but you're always here and you're special just as you are. Good luck.
2006-08-26 13:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. Yo must interact with people in the way that is comfortable for you. Is it important for you to have lots of friends or true friends? Your feeling out of place in your family might be because you are growing and making decision that you are not yet sure about. Perhaps you are projecting the out of place you feel onto what you think your family feels.
2006-08-26 13:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by cbellsew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a part of growing up. Good thing is that you are thinking about a better life. Just let me tell you someting, spending all of your time with girls or friends does not make your life better. you should find friends that they teach you good things. try to spend more time with your family instead of friends, because more friends keeps you away from family. make your parents your best friends because they love you and they will be there for you but I am not sure about those friends you are spending time with.
Make a plan for your future and go for it.
Good luck
2006-08-26 14:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Natalia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋