Why can't they accept guys that maybe don't make that much but are more sincere? Women seem to think that a guy that makes lots of money today will always make lots of money, always have a good job, and always will be able to provide. Why can't they see that change happens and a guy can lose it all in a job layoff or medical emergency?
2006-08-26 13:23:14 · 14 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, someone with money can lose it eventually. But having money shows that you are responsible, a good resource, or both. In general, females are attracted to males that have resources because it helps to ensure that their offspring won't starve. Sincerity doesn't feed your baby.
2006-08-26 13:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Eugena 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you may be mistaken. Mature women know that there are more important things in life than having a lot of money. They know that love and family are the most important things.
Immature girls think that money will buy them everything they need, so who cares about love?
2006-08-26 13:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some are really looking for a guy with lots and lots of money. but i think most singles like me are just looking for a responsible one and we're just misinterpreted. most of single women nowadays are wise enough to know what they want in life and that includes the partner that they wanna spend the rest of their lives with. we want a guy who's responsible enough. someone who knows what to prioritize in life (like his spending habit); someone who we think we can trust in times of troubles like layoffs or medical emergency that you're saying or someone healthy enough to help us get through life farther and longer.
now if you are not too rich, it's ok. single women don't really need a guy who has lots of money. a person with a great sense of responsibility is enough (someone who will be able to provide like you). now, if the single woman that you like or you're with thinks you don't have enough to offer her, don't push it. she doesn't deserve you and she's just gonna give you a headache for the rest of your life.
hope this helped.
God bless you abundantly! =)
2006-08-26 14:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women want to be cared for and be able to stay home to take care of their children. They don't want to go out and work every day while strangers raise their children. Women don't want to work outside the home all day and then come home to cook, clean and take care of kids while the man sits and watches TV.
2006-08-26 13:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Women prefer men with lots of money.. seriously..
2006-08-26 13:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men want what? (SEX) Why would a woman entertain the thought of going out with a man who can't offer her what she is entitled to (security). Speaking to you, would you want a woman who could not offer you anything other than sex? Think about it for a minute.
2006-08-26 13:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if they have a lot of money. I want them for there powerful love they give me...It's the love not the money!
2006-08-26 13:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Beaute' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is like that, so don't get too tangled up in it. If you find a gurl that is like that, she's not worth ur time anyways. So what if you don't have enough money, you will find a gurl who loves you for who you are. She won't love you cause you have money, she'll love you, cause you love her back.
2006-08-26 13:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by shak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a gold digger, and I agree. In one minute, the fortune can be gone. I go for a kind heart and a great personality, not how fat his wallet is.
2006-08-26 13:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not tru not all of them are like that those are just the hard heded gurls that dont know how to apreciate something good with or with out money
2006-08-26 13:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋