Most every person i know has had sex, has sex. and will have sex. alot of them arent married. note:mostly aquantences. my closer friends havent. but im thinking thats only a yet.
2006-08-26 13:19:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give oppinions on if you should wait, how far it should go, that kind of thing.
2006-08-26 13:29:01 · update #1
I firmly believe that you need to date the person for at least 3-6 months before having sex. If you have sex right away, there's nothing to work for. Know the person, don't just do it.
AND BE OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL
2006-08-26 13:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex outside of marriage is a mistake. Sex was made to bond two people together in a permanent way: like smearing glue on two pieces of paper and sticking them together. If you rip those two pieces apart, it's destructive to both. I think that people that use sex for entertainment lose the ability to experience true intimacy and the pleasure that comes from knowing just one person really well. There is always the memory of someone else tainting the experience, even if they decide to be monogamous later. Do you really want to compare your True Love to a bunch of other trials? You should find the stats on this. People who have sex before marriage are twice as likely to divorce later. Kids who are having sex are extremely likely to get a sexually transmitted disease. And this doesn't even go into feeling dirty, used, like you've lost something you can't have back. I hope you will avoid indulging in the foolishness that those around you are drinking in. I have NEVER heard anyone say they regret abstaining. Plenty the other way.
2006-08-26 13:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by marshwiggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there are any guidelines to sex, i think that when the person is right and you have true strong feelings for the person then sex is just a way to show to them how much those emotions mean to you. Sex is not something that you can preplan, it's something that just feels right, when the time comes you'll know. no need to rush into things, if the feelings are true then sex will come in time.
2006-08-26 13:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by shak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think you have to be married to have sex but be sure you love the person u do it with you never want to regret it leter. and u dont want to F*ck everything that walks. be sure but u dont have to wait for marrage
2006-08-26 13:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you. there are 2 ways to go about it, hold pure for the one you love, but what if your sex isnt compatible?
too big here, too small there. doesnt like this way, you dont like this way. sex is a big part of marrige.
2006-08-26 13:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's best to do it after marriage, but very few wait these days.
2006-08-26 13:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until marriage from what I have heard it is more enjoyable if you wait than if you dont
2006-08-26 13:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do that after you are married.
2006-08-26 13:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a statement. What is the question?
2006-08-26 13:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt wait its better if u wait though
2006-08-26 13:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋