he lets his older sister cut off our phone conversations 24/7,
he hasn't IM-ed me in a week.........
and he stopped in the middle of our last conversation because his friend "all the sudden" decided to have him over even though we haven't really hung out in like a week or two. We've been going out for 2 months........ and i know a guy is supposed to have friends and obligations. but he doesnt stick up and ask if he can do those things later...... because we made plans......... he just blows me off..... when there is something better.... he's sweet to me when were alone and all.. but i dont know what to do.and then after he blew me off last he promised me he would come over Sunday and then his sister told me he's staying the entire weekend at his friends house.......... thats what he does.. spend weeks at his friends house without a single call or email. I dont mind this every once in a while but all the time? am i being paranoid? i mean he is sweet most of the time.......
2006-08-26 13:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you could do better if you started dating a lamp post. This guy is a loser. Cut him lose and be glad you did, there's lots of guys out there who are sweet 24/7 so don't let this jerk distract you from finding one of them.
2006-08-26 13:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by zombie_togo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's the order of things in regards to importance my dear girl; He is first, his friends are second, and you are last. Do you really want to be last to the person you should be first to? Sounds like he's a little too immature to have a girlfriend. Just be aware that even when your 30, there are STILL some guys not mature enough to have relationships
2006-08-26 13:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by hecatesmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being paranoid. You have only been dating 2 months and he is a complete jerk! He is not trying to impress you, trust me. I'm sorry, Sweetie, but it doesn't sound like he is all that into you. Have you had sex with him? If so, you just may be a booty call for him...just with you at his convenience when he wants some. DUMP HIM!!!!! He is not worth your time. Find someone who really wants to spend time with you.
2006-08-26 13:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being paranoid. If i were you i would stop talking to the jerk he obviously doesnt care. It seems he just wanted someone to go out with at the time and chose you he doesnt really care.
2006-08-26 13:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by A Friend Of The Band I Swear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading this whole blabbering paragraph about all your problems......you get to the end and say "he is sweet most of the time". DUH!!! Were you born stupid or did you evolve to this point??? He is not into you and you are making a complete and total fool out of yourself! He is no longer your boyfriend, sweetie.....what will it take to get the message???? Give it up and gain some self-respect.
2006-08-26 13:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK GIRL LET ME BE REAL HE AINT THINKIN BOUT YOU SO Y YOU WAISTING TIME DONT TRY TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS BECAUSE IT MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A HO AND IF HE CANT SPEND TIME WITH YOU AND DO FOR YOU THEN WHO IS HE DOIN IT WITH NO BOY WHO HAS JUST STARTED WITH A GIRL WOULD BE LIKE THIS UNLEES HE HAD A GIRL ON THE SIDE TO GO TO AND I KNOW HE SAYS HE LOVE AND YALL LAUGH AT NOTHIN AND HE SAID HE WANT YOU TO BE HIS BABY MOMMA AND HE TALK LIKE YALL GOT A FUTURE BUT GIRL YOU GOTTA DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO FOR YOURSELF AND IT WILL HURT BUT YOU GOTTA LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND DONT GET SOFT HE'LL SAY SOMTHING AND YOU'LL FORGET HANDLE HIM
2006-08-26 13:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely cryz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you seem like a booty call. Just forget him. He obviously dosen't care about you the way you care about him. You deserve better. You're just hurting yourself by thinking he loves you. Sorry, but he dosen't.
2006-08-26 13:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by VandyViolin09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumped you again that means more than once.How muck pain are you asking for.Find someone that care for you and let that jerk go.you are only hurting yourself waiting around.Go to www.plentyoffish.com find someone close by you and have some fun.
2006-08-26 13:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life. Everytime you want to call him call someone else. He is no longer interested in you. When you have moved on then he would want to see you again.
2006-08-26 13:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u need him to be there for u more. if he really is sweet he will give u a little more time
2006-08-26 13:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋