last week she made me photograph her in "revealing" poses - this week she says she wants to go further - how can i tell her im uncomfortable with this despite it turning me on?
2006-08-26 13:19:01 · 18 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hahaha. This is a made-up question if I ever saw one.
2006-08-26 13:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by KATYA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that your girlfriend is turned on? Whatever the reason maybe you two shouldn't sit by each other during the service. Another thing, you need to tell her to just stop what she is doing, it is very inappropriate not only to you but also to God's house and to those around you. It sounds like she wants to distract you so that you can't hear and focus on what is going in the service. Take a stand and tell her to stop. If she doesn't then you need to tell her that you will be going to church by yourself. Don't mess with the house of God - because that is where cleansing begins and revival starts. Pray that God will convict her of her actions and talk with your pastor about this if it doesn't stop.
2006-08-26 20:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all you need to develop a sound prayer routine. Things get a lot easier and simpler when you pray.
-Secondly, lean away from sins and pleasures of the flesh, especially if you're not married. Trust me as a guy it is very hard in this society, but you must try.
-Thirdly get to know your girlfriend on another level and that might make thing better.
-Fourthly, tell her that she is doing innapropriate things in church and ask her to stop.
Good luck and God bless you.
2006-08-26 20:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by lawlzlawlzduck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you make a vow that you will not do anything sexual before youre married.
I had problems like that after I became a Christian. It starts off with something simple, and slowly but surely move by move, the sin blooms!
If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it -Genesis 4:7
2006-08-26 20:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two indeed go to church then you both know what you are doing is sin. And if her parents catch you you will be wishing that you had seen God.
Stop doing things with her if you are uncomfortable with this.
2006-08-26 20:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you attend church at least suggests that you have a set of beliefs and values upon which you want to base your life. Does your girlfriend share these values? If not, does she at least support your desire to make them priorities in your life or is she a hindrance or stumbling block? What does she do to enhance your life in a positive way? Do you hear warning bells or see red flags being raised? Most importantly, what do you think you should do about it?
2006-08-26 20:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vascada 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just say No,................. or get a new girlfriend that has the same morals as you.
personally I would go with the flow and take a walk on the wild side
2006-08-26 20:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by elvenlike13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you do anything that you don't want to do unless it is under duress with a weapon or a threat.
Take some responsibility for your own actions and tell her you aren't interested.
2006-08-26 20:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by astroleolady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what this has to do with Church. I do however know she can't make you do anything your not comfortable with.
You need to stand your ground and tell her how you feel.Take responsibility and don't just blame her.
2006-08-26 20:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Linda R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too young to remember this, but it's a great one: "Just say no!"
And break up with this girl. She's confused, and you're either not old enough or not strong enough to help her.
2006-08-26 20:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Verb8mgirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋