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And expect them to cater to you?

2006-08-26 13:18:51 · 24 answers · asked by UseAnotherNickname 1 in Society & Culture Etiquette

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I would have the nerve and let me explain why. It is not just about the language, it is about experiencing the culture. There is something new and exciting about being in a different land/world and culture and experiencing their differences between our own and not knowing their language at that moment. Learning the language will always come latter. I am retired U.S. Navy and I have been to many different lands and I never once felt out of place because my mind was and still is always open and learning everything I can about their ways. Thats all that matters, really!

2006-08-26 13:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shellback 6 · 0 0

Thanks for this very entertaining question.

Yes, that's what I did and I am not sorry.

No, it's not exactly right - I'll explain. I'm an American Jew who moved to Israel. I did try to learn the language - Hebrew and I did learn something, but not enough. I did try a few times - school and private teachers, but I am terrible at languages.

As far as the culture goes - my culture continues to be American and Jewish rather than Israeli. Although, I do listen to Israeli music and I do like it. I would go to Israeli films, but most of the time, the films do not have English subtitles.

Do I expect them to cater to me? No, but I do like help and understanding and sympathy - is that catering? If it is, I plead guilty. I have received a lot of help from Israelis - so I must say they have catered to me.

All in all, I am satisfied (even if I do complain and moan at times). I hope they are satisfied too (I mean my fellow Israelis).

2006-08-30 03:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0 0

no, but that happens every day with the us. I think i know where you are getting at and i think it is wrong too. I work at hooters part time and the cooks are always expecting me to speak spanish to them like english isn't the primary language of the us. but hey, if the managers hire spanish speaking cooks and i get the food out late or wrong cause there is a lack of communication then i guess the managers are going to eat the money it costs them to remake the food. also here's something funny i laughed at it myself. Ok, most of us hooters girls don't speak spanish and get really annoyed that all the hispanic cooks speak very little english. Well, the managers started hiring black guys to be cooks and one was new and being a little slow, or he was doing somethingelse, anyway, well he didn't get the job that the hispanic cook asked/told him to do fast enough and the hispanic guy said "lazy black guys" you know everyone has their quirks and i just thought that was funny, cause i would rather talk to someone back there even if her is slower if he speaks english than someone fast but doesn't understand a damn thing i am saying!

2006-08-30 10:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I love learning new languages all the time. I pick up languages quite easy. Been base here in Europe I love learning about different cultures. Some people have a fear of other cultures it really base on ignorants

2006-08-26 13:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. But, do you know how hard it is to learn another language other than your own?

All the signs are in a different language. The "natives" speak another language. So, the adjustment is difficult.

Before you make assumptions. Think about how hard it would be for you to be in their shoes.

Getting a job is one thing.. then, you have to take English classes once you are off work. How tire would you be?

2006-08-26 14:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Malika 5 · 0 0

no longer French, in case you pick to communicate suitable, fluent French, it particularly is amazingly difficult. i might might desire to declare that English is the least perplexing- English is amazingly lots an oral language, if it doesnt sound constructive out loud, it somewhat is incorrect. After that, something like Spanish or Italian is elementary. Mandarin, isn't that difficult for the reason that there is not any conjugation or grammar, in spite of the shown fact that it does not sound like various western language and the sentence platforms are completely distinctive. Plus, except you take place to stay in Chinatown, it somewhat is form-of ineffective.

2016-09-30 00:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I asked this question a long time ago. It was amazing reading some of the responses.
My answer to this question is "Absolutely NOT"
How could anyone do that and be a productive member of the society in which they chose to live?
It just takes common sense.

2006-08-26 14:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by chulita 5 · 0 0

Nope, thats arrogant and will make your life in the new place suck. I'm in Japan and I see tons of Americans, Canadians, etc who come here for work and expect to be treated like tourists. Its crap

2006-08-30 06:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agree with shellback, it's not having the nerve it's about the experience and the opportunity to learn and expand your knowledge

2006-08-29 07:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Trixie 2 · 0 0

No. However, 500+ years ago, Europeans came to North America and did this very thing to the Aboriginal people. Assimilation sucks.

2006-08-26 13:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by TML ♥'er 3 · 0 1

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