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i get out from mother land, to be educated, and work and help my family who are in africa, but still i can't help my self, i wasn;t think life will drive me like this, but i hope to be how i was!! god help!!

2006-08-26 13:18:26 · 6 answers · asked by onlyGODcan!! 1 in Health Diseases & Conditions Infectious Diseases

is there any body, can help me, pls!! i am here in moldova, and madice is too bad, and i was taking the treatment for 2 years, but i am lossing my life, now in the moment i do not have any infictions, or diseases, but as the doctors said that it can came or any time, so is good is if i find to go out to devoloped countrys, for the garanty of my life! so pls is there any Organaztion may take me away!!

2006-08-26 13:30:19 · update #1

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Whew, that is a difficult place to be. It must be pretty tough to send money to your family and you are having trouble living. It is important to take care of your self FIRST before you try and take care of your family. You have to make certain that you have the essentials in life; food, clothing, shelter, employment before you can help some one else. I know it is important to help your family but if you are not well or if you cannot pay your rent or buy your self food or anything like that then how can you send money home? I am not saying that you should be selfish but I am saying that you first family second because if you send everything you have to your family and you have none for your self, you are up a creek without a paddle and what ever happens happens.

i truly hope you feel better and are able to get yourself in a better position

2006-08-26 13:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by cbellsew 3 · 0 0

I'm not quite grasping what you are saying but it seems like you are not happy here. Maybe because it is hard to earn money and not to see your family. It seems like you may have a choice to make - to be better off financially or to be with your family. If this is the case, maybe you can think of a compromise solution, like start a business in Africa that exports to the United States or work in the capital of your country and go home on weekends.

2006-08-26 20:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You sound like you are working very hard to help yourself and your family. That can make you stressed out and depressed. Go to see a doctor who can help you by talking with you about why you feel this way. The doctor may prescribe some medication that may help you feel better about yourself and your life. Pray if you are a spiritual person.

2006-08-26 20:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by PonderinStuff 2 · 1 0

Yawn, obviously you need help with your English. Maybe going back will help your family more then being here. Or, try harder here by going to night school, and working hard. ~

2006-08-26 20:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I ask myself this same question, I still haven't come up with an answer. The only thing that comforts me is believing that God only gives us as much as we can handle. Keep your head up, you have come this far never give up ;)

2006-08-26 20:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Neffie 1 · 0 0

just keep working as hard as you can and you will ne ok dude. or dudett. everything will be ok ..

2006-08-26 20:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0 0

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