Be yourself and try to socalize. Worse thing you can do is be fake and get friends that you won't like. Eventually you won't like yourself.
2006-08-26 13:22:48
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answered by Icon 7
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Dude, just be yourself. If we tell you what to say, you r gonna screw it up or it is screwed up cuz you cant do that. it doesn't work with women and it wont work to get freinds. be yourself, and dont separate youself form other people. get involved with people, talk to them and slowly a relationship will develop. dont go with the popular kids, cuz they will screw you over, unless you want to be popular (i would'nt reccomend it). hang out with the kids in the middle or if you want the low end. justd ont care what people think. i know it is hard for middle schoolers, but try it. i am fresh out of middle school, and i will tell you that i didn't care what anyone but my freinds thought, and if they were doing something i didn't agree with (drugs) i stopped hanging out with them. none of them did, but if the freinds you make do, stop and find new ones. it really isn't that hard. i am assuming you just started school this week or are going to monday. freinds will come soon enough. just go up to someone or something and say "hey, wats up" and strike up a conversation about how much a teacher sucks or rocks, a class was funny or what not. Don't sweat it, if you are nice and inviting, freinds will come quickly. if you are mean, or seclude yourself from people, they will seclude themsleves from you. simply treat them as a freinds, and they will treat you back, and before you know it, you are freinds!! yet again the only acception is snobby people. not all cool people are snobs, but if you become cool, then you have to deal with the snobs more than normal people do.
and say what it natural to you. the most natural thing i say when i meet people is "hey, wats up" then talk baout something i mentioned above. DO NOT say hey my name is ____ because i think it is to formal and adultish. Do not go into a questioning session asking what are your likes/dislikes where you live, etc.because you also sound to formal and desperate. Do ask what your schedule/ teacher is. thats normal. The only case i can see it being normal to say your name is after th eother person says hey wats up back to you. just do whats comfortable to you, and go into with a mindset you dont care what they say, so if you get rejected (which you wont unless the guys a snob) you wont be bummed and afraid.
2006-08-26 13:30:55
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answered by Mike 2
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Just try to talk with people eventually you will find some people that you can hang out with. Just try to think of it as if this group doesn't like me there's another that will. Join in activities, sports, music, anything that way you meet more people. The more kids you hang out with the better. If all else fails just use the easiest line of "hi" works well.
2006-08-26 13:25:53
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answered by rideredalways 2
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the biggest thing is to be simply be yourself. you don`t wanna be known as a poser or something ridiculus like that. when you meet new people in your classes, introduce yourself, just smile and be like "hi, i`m ____" whatever your name is. hahah sorry. that`ll let people know that you`re open to be friends with everyone. then ask them a few questions about their likes/dislikes .. what classes they have. n` ask if they wanna hangout at lunch or something. and join a club you like `cause you`ll meet people who share some of the same interests as you do.
2006-08-26 13:28:29
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answered by Anonymous
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You make friends by saying hi, asking their name, ask them what they're interested in, how old they are, what classes they have, what music they like. Start a conversation and genuinely show interest in getting to know them. If you're trying to get "popular", you can pretty much forget about making real friends.
2006-08-26 13:22:52
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answered by Katt Attack 3
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