i don't know why. I am totally straight and i get attracted to women. But i don't know why i find it so hard to approach a girl. Is this normal? Or am i just gay?
2006-08-26 13:15:38 · 24 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are not gay! Just need confidence. You sound like you have low self-esteem. Just know that you are a desireble guy, and women will be interested in you if you approach them nicely. Well, not every women, but there are those who will respond. So don't give up on women, okay?
2006-08-26 13:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Author Al 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not gay, your just intimidated by women. Your shy and you can't easily approach women. There's nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of shy people in the world. You just have to build up your confidence. Stand tall and be approachable and approach with confidence.
2006-08-26 20:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol your normal. Your really shy but you normal. You would be a little weird if you just went up to a girl you didn't know and started talking to her....lol. Don't worry about being gay because if you were you wouldn't be attracted to girls. Good luck on figuring out if your gay or not...even though you really can't unless you ask or just plain experiment. But i suggest you don't experiment
2006-08-26 20:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Courty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. If you get turned on by women, then you're straight. But every guy at some point in his life get shy or nervous around women. We're all just scared of rejection.
2006-08-26 20:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some confidence look if you walk up to a woman and ask her out and she say no, guess what? You didn't lose anything you leave with what you came with nothing. If she say yes then you win. Remember the worse thing a woman can say is no.
PS I think your gay get some game and man-up
2006-08-26 20:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by meanblacktiger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah, your 'totally straight'....or are you just gay?
you are a middle child...you have an older brother, a younger sister. your mother is the boss in the house.
the girl you were thinking of when you wrote this question is actually thinking of you right now too, and she needs you to call right now.
2006-08-26 20:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been hurt in the past. You need to build you self esteem and work hard at it. Try not to say stupid things and repeat hurtful things which have been already said. Try to be nice to all girls no matter how big or small they are.
2006-08-26 20:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just because youve never been into a relationship. Just face your fears and go up to one. the worst thing that they can say is "no".
2006-08-26 20:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mother has a role in your fear of women...I'm not trying to be mean but it does happen.
2006-08-26 20:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem except i know i like women and men. my spit game (ha ha) is tight to guys but girls i cheese up and become so soft. ain't it a trip. but we not alone.
2006-08-26 20:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋