when i meet a guy instantly i start daydreaming about our future. within 2 minutes i already married him and had kids (a boy and a girl) in my head!! and i even think of names for them. i think of how our house will look like...where we'll go on vacation...etc growing old together.......i know what ur thinking...im not insane i promise
so i fall in love with my fantasy even when the reality is the guy is an abusive jerk who disrespects women...i just cant leave him because i feel some sort of attachment to him..so thats what happend with my previous relationship and now I find myself doing the same thing again!! how can i stop this??
2006-08-26 13:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by some girl u dont know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just so u know im not a baby-freak. im only 20 so its not like my biological clock is ticking or anything like that
2006-08-26 13:06:16 · update #1
You ARE insane, I promise! See a shrink, quickly!
2006-08-26 13:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by monotol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing is healthy. You might need to work on this "neediness" of yours a bit. The fantasy is great, great, too, that you realize that you are falling in love w/ the image you've created, not the person. You sound very healthy. Try to understand the guy and you'll have a well-rounded psyche and love interests.
2006-08-26 13:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by robert r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, all i do when I meet someone sexy is mentally undress them. I want to think about how many kids we won't have, and all the money and sex that goes with being without little devils and how we'll live in a small apt. and never get above minimum wage. It's a realistic fantasy, after all.
2006-08-26 13:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just trying to see if the person you are dating can fit into your image of an ideal family. its a good thing to invision but dont try to force the fantasy and do not tell him about them.
2006-08-26 13:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally immature, like you were about 12. I suggest that you go to counseling......you have serious relationship issues and unless you "fix" yourself, you are headed down a road of heartache and pain!
2006-08-26 13:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you wanna quit a fantasy like that?
Sounds like fun to me.
2006-08-26 13:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by cat_the_aussie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question belongs in the mental health category.
2006-08-26 13:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insane !!!! No wonder your single, you scare everyone away. Holy crap !
2006-08-26 13:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Happy day!!!!! You are part of the human race. Welcome.
2006-08-26 13:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋