have you ever been that other woman? did it or can it work out?
2006-08-26 13:03:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually the other woman doesn't mean much other than a piece of A$$! If they are with someone else they must have feelings for them or they wouldn't be with them, so the other woman is usually just a distraction, and an activity to fill time with that their partner is not! No respectable woman would EVER be the other woman, because 1. They have to much respect for themselves, and 2. They have to much respect for their fellow woman! Why would you want to be a number 2 to anyone? i have seen girls that say that their MAN ( and I use that term loosely here) has other girls, but that they are #1! What?! I am a grown woman, and a damn good one so **** being #1, I need to be the ONLY 1, or get the hell out of my face! You live and learn. I would say that 1 out of 1,000 affairs end with the other woman getting the man, and usually the only reason for that is that his real wife or girl found out and won't have him back! And even if you get him why would you want him? If he did it to her, he will do it to you, be real with yourself! You have to demand respect for yourself, and most importantly YOU have to respect YOURSELF Sweetness, If you don't then no one else will!
2006-08-26 13:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by pitbull lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very small percentage actually leave their families, homes and wife for the other woman. Even if he does an even smaller amount of those relationships work out. Anything that can be stolen once can be stolen again and never forget that. For the most part these guys are like children with selfish tendencies. Nobody can be happy at the expense of another person. The karma is just hideous.
2006-08-26 13:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very few. Maybe five percent. And even if a man leaves his wife (or partner) for the "other woman," he won't stay with the other woman... their short time together after the split is filled with resentment by the man for the woman for his perception that she split up his family and caused him all the crap he's now going through, and with resentment by the woman for the man for not being the same man she "fell in love" with. It just can't work. Plus it's wrong, and believe me, what goes around does totally come around, especially where this is concerned. I've been cheated on, and I've been the other woman, and I'm a child of divorce thanks to affairs, so I've seen pretty much all sides of this... and please, don't think your situation is special. Everybody thinks their situation is special. Everybody. And nobody's is. Get yourself out now. You deserve so much more than what you're hoping to settle for right now. He is NOT as great as you think he is... after all, as you know, he's cheating on her. You're only special right now because you are the other woman. If you end up with this guy, guess what? You'll be taking away his "other woman," and he'll have to go find another one... and believe me, he will. Please, please believe me, and do whatever you have to do to get yourself out of this. Move, change your phone number, even change your job if you have to.
The only thing good I can say about affairs is that when I had one, I hit rock bottom and finally gave my life over to God... and now my life is 10 times better than I even dreamed it would be with the guy.
2006-08-26 13:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Verb8mgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been the other woman before, without really knowing it. I always find out that the guy I've been dating was already in a relationship. Luck of the draw I guess.
Based on those experiences, and heavy research...they almost never leave for the other women. If you are in a relationship like that, prepare to be completely miserable and lonely.
2006-08-26 13:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with percentages. Don't go looking for a random guy and take chances that there is a 40% chance of him leaving you. Find a stable man who respects you. Get to know him and then you will know if there is any likelyhood of him leaving you.
Now, If you are in fact that other woman, and the man left his partner for you, then you can be quite certain that he will do the same to you. 100% sure. Count on it.
2006-08-26 13:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
statistics say 1 out of 3
2006-08-26 13:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by lollypop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now at present moment....Every now and than...but...eventually they will loose out at the end...they deserve it....cause the first marriage and love is built on trust, love and not on how rich you are or what is your position...but the second temptation comes when you are in the next level...many second men or women will come close .. so beware !!! it is just temporary...the first one is want is always the true love and life...
2006-08-26 13:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK GOOD QUESTION FIRSTLY IF HES GIRL AINT DOIN RIGHT THEN HES GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE BUT IF HIS GIRL IS DOIN RITE THEN THERE IS A CHANGE THAT NOMATTER WHAT HE DOES HE GONNA COME HOME TO THE ONE THAT BEEN THERE 4 HIM AND LOVE MORE BECAUSE HE SEES NO GIRL COULD BE HIS GIRL AND IF YOU ARE THE OTHER WOMEN YOU SHOULD GET OUT OF IT BECAUSE WHAT A MAN DID IT TO YOU LIKE THAT
2006-08-26 13:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely cryz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, and it didnt work out, so I lost out on 2 relationships..
2006-08-26 13:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the other woman and when my paartner found out he left me and so did the other guy i was fooling around with. Dont do it!
2006-08-26 13:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋