I am in love with my best friend but she is going wit a guy (they only just started) and I really love her and the guy is cool too, but when i see them together it really hurts and i cant tell anyone, coz she is who i tell everything to. Is there any hope? What dhould I do? Has anyone here been in this situation?
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2006-08-26 13:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How will she know how you feel about her if you don't tell her? You need to sit down and have a meaningful talk with her about your feelings. You never know what will happen. Besides you will feel much better once you get this off your chest!
Life's a gamble dude, roll the dice! Good Luck!
2006-08-26 13:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok many people go through this situation, I know it's tough but hey life's unfair. That's cute, well that you like your bestfriend. First of all I think you should tell you bestfriend about how you are feeling for her. Hey you trust your friend other times so this is the part where you tell her how you feel, she is going to understand don't worry. Yes I know she is going out with this guy, but it doesn't hurt to tell because you never know she might be feeling the same way about you, except that she doesn't want to tell you for some reason as well. It's better to tell than not to say anything to her. :D Hope everything works out with both of you.
2006-08-26 13:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down. Then work out this stress, that stuff can really distract you, try going to the gym and working out a bit, it'll clear your mind. Then think about this: you're jealous. Its simple and understandable, but also bad. The "green eyed monster" can spell the end of a friendship. When this kind of thing happened to me, I was lucky to have the girl fall in with a good friend of mine. After I asserted that I wasn't going to let my jealousy hurt my friendship with my friend, my romantic feelings for her just evaporated. Get to know this guy.
Either way, it feels really, REALLY bad for a while and that's normal, but after some real time, you'll just feel tired of feeling that way and you'll get over it. everybody goes through this, its important for your emotional development to deal with this. You'll live.
2006-08-26 13:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by valoriousblue777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunatly the trick to this sticky situation is going to be to tell your best friend how you feel, even though that might make you want to crawl up in a ball and hide. I would'nt try to break them up or anything like that, because that would make you look like jerk and she would then be mad at you-
I would feel out her situation with this guy before you tell her---see where she is mentally, does she really like him? or not--and from that conversation you can wiggle in your feelings for her.
Just a tip, girls like guys who are confident and are not afraid to say how they feel, so I would just tell her how you feel, silence will never get you what you want, so my advice is that if she is someone you want--go for it!, BUT if she doesn't reciprocate her feelings, then let her be.
2006-08-26 13:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things can happen if u tell her
1.she likes u back and it's a good relationship
2. she thinks ur weird or something or just shocked and doesn't became ur bestfriend anymore
it's a gamble dude
2006-08-26 13:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by LazyForLife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Wonderful relationships can start with a good friendship. Don't let yourself become jelous or show that you are hurt. Be her friend.
2006-08-26 13:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by denimblue_6a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh ! you have to tell her, be careful, so you dont screw up your friendship. Good luck, hope she feels the same way as you do.
2006-08-26 13:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by lisirm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see how this relationship goes.. once she breaks up and u think u might have a chance tell her how u feel. beware this could ruin your friendship
2006-08-26 13:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! if you do not you will never know and you may regret it the rest of your life
2006-08-26 13:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by patricia_hyland72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel
2006-08-26 13:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋