So this girl calls me up and tells me that she feels the same way I do but a couple days later she avoids my calls. I'm trying to figure if she's holding something back, or her feelings flipped that quickly or what? I feel I can have a future with her but this is tripping me out, has anybody ever been in this situation and can give some pointers on what to do?
2006-08-26 12:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there's really no way to find out how she truly feels about your now if you don't directly talk to her and ask her. Ask her what's up and what's with the cold attitude and what did you do to make her act this way? If her in that short period of time, if she's met anybody she likes more than you, which is very unlikely. I'm not assuming you are, but try not to be too clingy. Give her some time and space and respect them. Maybe she's really busy with something.
2006-08-26 13:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a girl that can't really make her mind up right now,she most likely is a girl that gos from guy to guy real often,if this keeps up move on with your life enjoy life and have fun,there is no fun in waiting a round.
2006-08-26 20:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could mean a lot of things. Just try to get some time to talk with her. Be nice about it and ask what's wrong.
2006-08-26 20:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Smiles Like She Means It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip foo! the girl OBVIOUSLY digs you..she only told you that...but later on..doesn't know how to ACT basically now that she's let you kno bout her innermost darkest feelings for you..get the picture? she's shy..you would be 2...put yourself in her shoes...right? wouldn't you be shy in front of a guy like you..being her? haha...did i boost your self-esteem there?
2006-08-26 20:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is avoiding you so she does not hurt your feelings by telling you she does not like you the way you like her... Find someone new...
2006-08-26 20:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. You should try talking to her about it. Its not cool for her to tease you that way. Personally, I have no tolerance for those type of games, and would just move on.
2006-08-26 20:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be you scared her off in some way. Or someone may have said something about you that frightened her? there are as many reasons as there are people, I think.
2006-08-26 20:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an immature teenager and so does she. There is nothing..NOTHING that you said on why in the world you feel that you have a future with her!!! DUH!!! Stop making a fool out of yourself and leave her alone!
2006-08-26 20:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋