my hubby and i are splitting up (I'm going abroad for a much needed holiday) how soon do i start dating again) i am 35 and i want to start having kids...dont have much time, and short of asking him for a kid, i dont want to find myself asking just anyone, i dont want to be asking period...i want to be in a loving relationship again soon (sorry, i dont know how else to nurse my wounds)....?
2006-08-26 12:17:25 · 21 answers · asked by Wisdom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u living in England ,start chat with me,maybe we match each other.
2006-08-26 13:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by discover 1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohkay. First, did you say 6 years, 2 months ago.? If it was 6 years, yes: 6 Years? Wow! Well, if you really like this co-worker, go ahead and date, hunn. It's ohkay. No need to be worried about anything, Just make sure you can trust this co-worker. 2 months: Errmm... maybe it is to soon? But it's all up to you. If you think that it's the right time, you've forgetten about your old boyfriend, it's your choice, & your judgemental place. 6 years & 2 months- Same thing as I said for 6 years. (: HOPPPEE IT HELLPPPEDDD......!
2016-03-26 21:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi wisdom I'm sorry to hear you splitting up with your husband, you know when your ready to start dating again, if your looking your ready. You maybe lucky and find a good guy straight away you may not? it took me two years before i found someone after my ex. my advise would be do lots of window shopping and maybe try a few on for size, remember 35 is a perfect age your in your prime you know what you want go get it but don't rush into anything you may regret later. also you don't have to be married to have kids.Oh and good luck.Tony
2006-08-26 12:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by sandpipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt rush in 2 anything just now u have a few years left to start a family it will take a bit of time for u 2 get over ur husband and start again if u jump in to an other relationship to soon u will be on the rebound have time on ur own do ur own thing etc give it a few months x
2006-08-26 12:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretty much over the split, then start dating immediately. Good luck in your adventure, but do not let the fact that you desperately want a child led you into another failed relationship (marriage). You have time...five more years or so...women are having babies in their fifties...so do not rush...
2006-08-26 12:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by sassper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer this question but yourself, deep inside your own intuition.
Do you know what you want out of life? Do you know what you want out of a man. If you have even the slightest doubt, you need to do your best to figure it out before you get involved in another loving relationship.
2006-08-26 12:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by imagineworldwide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your vacation and just relax. Give yourself plenty of time to recover. You need to take a few months to get to know different people and pass the word that you are single again. When you feel ready to meet different men and take a chance, then you are ready to date again.
2006-08-26 12:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there are any specified mourning periods for people going through a divorce. Divorce is a choice. Its not like he died and left you a widow. If you want to start dating, then date.
2006-08-26 12:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced about 1 year ago and have just begun to date and have still found it uncomfrotable,it it different for everyone you will know when it's right and things will just work if it feel good then go with it!!!
2006-08-26 12:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by harley6455 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont waste any time i found love just 6 weeks after my marraige broke up unfortunately it didnt last but i found out what true love really is get out and start living
2006-08-26 13:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you want, but be careful. Find someone you like, not just the first person who comes onto you. You're very vulnerable right now.
2006-08-26 12:22:09 · answer #11 · answered by akhaiyan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋