This guy just told me that he likes me and we just met today on the internet. wtf?!? what do i tell him
2006-08-26 12:00:57 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 15 and lives far away from me
2006-08-26 12:30:15 · update #1
he is really 15 he sent me a picture of himself.
2006-08-26 12:47:50 · update #2
You met TODAY.. on the INTERNET.. how can he LIKE you already? He doesn't know you.. you don't know him. There is no like or dislike here.. you are chatting.. that's all. there is no reason for you to jump into thinking there is more than there really is. If you like chatting with this guy.. then chat with him.. but be sensible.. dont' tell him personal things about yourself.. don't give him personal info or contact info.. He might very well be who and what he says he is.. but he might also be some old creep who is trolling for innocent girls.. Use the brain God gave you, Honey.. and don't be in such a rush.
2006-08-26 12:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXX be very careful of what you say to him. Never give out personal information and especially not your address and never make plans to meet this stranger at your home or in a non public place if you do plan to meet him bring a friend and tell someone where you are going and what time you will return. There are lots of perverts on the internet and there are good people as well but so many lie so it's hard to tell whos honest or not. Good luck hun. BEEEEEEEEEE Careful Please. XXXXX
2006-08-26 12:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Block him and move on. It's better to be safe than sorry.
Long answer: I'd listen to what "Be" said. She sounds like she's got her thinking cap on. This guy could be a stalker and may be trying to give you small talk and try to make you feel good and slowly lure you to his place. So just ignore the guy and please watch what you do online; there are lots of freaks and weirdos out there operating as cyber-stalkers; many are child molesters who know that children are easy prey, so they try to honey-coat their intentions with promises of gifts or things their parents don't give them.
You are probably not a child, but the same goes for young girls. You'd be surprised how many young girls are lured away from their homes by these type of people.
Just block him.
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WRONG!!!--He's not 15; he only *says* he's 15. Remember, this is the Internet; people can say anything they want. It's probably a middle-aged stalker trying to get you to agree to meet with him (it doesn't matter that he lives far away from you); then he'll do what he wants with you and move on to the next victim. DO NOT BECOME A STATISTIC. And if he rilly is 15, so what? It's better to be safe than sorry.
Don't think about it too much. Just forget it and move on.
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Lilsurfergirl, what are you doing?
Look everyone, I just got this message from her:
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Stop trying to make boyfriends online!!! You're just going to get yourself in big trouble. And for your information, I have to be older than 17 to be wise and experienced to give you the above answer. I hope you're a cop, because for a young girl to be rilly acting like this, I'd be very scared for your safety.
If you're rilly a teenage girl, go do your homework or do something productive. Yahoo!® Answers is for learning things (as well as for showcasing your intelligence)--believe it or not; I've learned a lot on here myself. This is not a dating site.
2006-08-26 12:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful when meeting people on the internet. If you are confident that you are talking with who you think you are then tell him how you feel. My Husband and I met on E-harmony and have been together since 2002. So I guess we are a success story. Just be careful, but if you know and trust the person then tell them how you feel.
2006-08-26 12:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by andrealholladay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you see the news, wake up and look at what going on around you with Internet predators preying on young girls. Tell him your Dad is a Police Chief and he's taken a sudden interest on your Internet activities.
2006-08-26 12:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't respond for 3 days. Wait and see if he pursues his interest in you after that time. But really? He said that he likes you and you only met today, on the internet, not in person ... don't respond for 3 days and just wait and see
2006-08-26 12:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say thank you and take it with a grain of salt. You cannot really tell when you are on the net. You meet these people and they are different. Trust me I know. I went on a ton of dates on match.com and never wanted to see them again. They seemed fine at 1st and one I had to walk out on while waiting for a table. Trust me it is just the net.
2006-08-26 12:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off.. this guy is an internet stalker!
I have been on line for over 20 years! Believe me or.. take your own chances
2006-08-26 12:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking this question? How could you be so socially confused that you would have to wonder how to deal with such an obviously irrational advance on the part of some mysterious, and most likely preditorial man?
2006-08-26 12:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your so stupid. You'll probably be the next one to get kidnapped, raped, and left behind. Don't you watch the news? He is only telling you what he wants to tell you. And it's most likely not the truth.
Quit making such a big deal...you know you want to fu ck him. Just do it already and get it over with.
2006-08-26 12:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋