its not ez leaving a long relationship especially when a baby involved?

Question

not ez leaving a long relationship especially when a baby involved
he loves his dad it just no trust and i'm planning to leave him b/c people dont do anything like that if they care about they family he just was trying to sneak but i live with him ans a home that he owns i go to college he pays the bills my bills and i dont have to do anything he is really a good father and my son loves him so much when we gone together he looks for him and that changest his smile to a frown when he is not around i can tell its going to hurt my son he do everything i say do cook basically if i say hope he do it.. what to do i'm still hurt but his friend is a bad influence on him that what make him do things.

SORRY ! for typing to fast i have a lot on my plate this just happened a few days ago so i'm holding it all in..

Answer 1

a little hard to understand you, girL. but here it goes...tell your baby daddy to sit down ...both of ya'll sit down and discuss what is best for the BABY. this isnt bout ya'll no more. there's a child involved and you need to decide what's best for him. if you feel like u cant stay with him anymore then discuss the terms on where the baby should stay or switch every month. you just really need to talk to your baby daddy.

Answer 2

You say his friends is a bad influence on him. Girl,please he is a grown man and he has his own mind. First of all stop treating him like a slave. Sure he pampers you and you love that but let him be man. Trust me I was just like you wanted my ex to do everything I said do and guess what he started to turn from me and I blamed the friends but it was me and until you realize you can not control him but just love him for the person he is the relationship will get back on track. I lost my man and now we are working on it again before you lose yours take a look at yourself and stop pointing the finger at him. Communication is the first key. Talk to him let him know how you feel and definitely ask him what he thinks and how he feels. Remember it takes compromise and scarfice to make a good relationship work. He may be hurting just like you and not saying anything talk to your man girlfriend.

Answer 3

Best of luck girl. If you do leave him, don't get involved into a nother relationship right away because you will only attract the same kind of guy (check your past relationships and you will see what I mean).

Take time to learn about yourself and learn to take care of yourself so that you are not depended on a male. This way, you can pick a male based on his character and not for financial support. There is more to it than this, so it may be best for you to speak with a counselor (use your health insurance or his) about your future and family problems.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

women will always use the baby thing, when they don't know what else to do. It's your fault!!! When it's not going your way you want to bail and then talk about how the baby loves his dad. He will always be a good father, if you are in the picture or not. He pays your bills, and owns a home. you just want to control him! You never had it so good.

Answer 5

Correct your grammar first off. PROBLEM # 1. Relying on him will eventually make him hate you- even if you are the best piece of pussy walking. His friends just like yours give advice, it's only common. His friend must be miserable- however distantly or directly. Try talking about your problem to him- as in communicate. If it does not work in the end: get a job, rely on yourself, and see if he can still make time for your child's sake.

Answer 6

umm . . maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and the influence that his friend has on him . . . he seems to be a loving and caring person and I haven't seen anything that he's done wrong (unless you just left that part out) . . but you should definitely let him know how you feel . . if he loves you, he will change . . but at least give him the chance to make it right before you just up and leave . . .

Answer 7

as a mom your son is first ,nothing else, but as young couple you will come last to friends they hold on to that is the easy part, family life has no real excitement that you can brag about , even though I thought it was great raising our kids but I see it now young men like to be with thier pals instead of those who should be important/ talk to him and let him know how you really feel and what is your plan see if he will wake up

Answer 8

I don't know you, but I'm proud of you for doing what's right for you and your son even though it's hard.
If he cares for you, then he will do what he can to change.
Otherwise, hopefully one day a man will come into your life who will make both of you happy, be a good role model for your son and treat you with respect.

Answer 9

First, may I suggest you learn how to spell. Once you are able to spell, I suggest you learn how to formulate sentences. Once you accomplish this, you should be ready to attend junior high school.

In the meantime, you should put your child up for adoption and focus on obtaining a job at Burger King.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Ur Feedback the Q:

I think so ur family so happy in ur babay. When ur babay was smalll then would u have take of ur babay! nethier ur babay would be problem mentely growth ? A babay without mother touch in love its very shakeing. When 3rd persons of influnece bad its might be any lacking of scope
in ur family cuz its solving two ways :

1.suppoert ur babay in nearest blood relativemember to take caer ur babay in ur home

2. If u love ur babay or ur husband thane u scarifies in ur college

If u just thinking depth anylies in sutioun........ save the babay thane u get more love will get ur husband if u can belive me confedencetily.