2006-08-26 11:25:05 · 7 answers · asked by ozone098 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't. Unless you are ugly as well as fat...
2006-08-26 11:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I should say that it isnt hard for a Heavy set girl to get a guy, I know plenty that have wound up with decent guys, ( my brothers 3 ex wives lol) but you have to ask yourself what is decent, do you want a guy that bows down for your every whim or do you want a guy that will help and support you. and another question you need to ask yourself is what kind of looks are you looking for, if you are looking for someone that could be a "model" then you will be looking for a while. the biggest thing you need to know is going in be confident. confidence is a huge turn on, knowing what you want and how your going to get it. the other thing is to know when to call it quits, just because he seems decent at the beginning doesnt mean that he really is or wont change, guys change, I know I am one. I home this has been helpful
2006-08-26 11:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cory H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a couple choices:
Target fat guys. They generally have no problem with fat girls. But remember that you and your partner will have increased diseases and a shorter lifespan to look forward too. (Starting to see why it can be a turnoff for healthy guys?)
Start losing weight and exercising. Join a rec sports team and meet guys through that. Somebody who has started taking care of her body and is clearly progressing toward a goal of a healthy body is almost as good as someone who's already there. It's not the fat, as much as the assumed attitudes that go with it.
2006-08-26 20:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Arbor Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way it is in today's society.
There are few changes, you could make, lose weight, which isn't easy/
Or hang out with fat guys, at least you will something in common.
'm sure, there are plenty of decent guys, who are fat.
Or maybe you don't want one of them. If you don't find a fat guy attractive, then you have answered your own question.
Lets hope that isn't true, and you find that decent guy.
It's up to you, to decide which way to go.
2006-08-26 11:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love will find its way to you..keep a look out though..
the world is cruel and unfair..you just have to remember that each and everyone is created with a gift..just bcz u're fat, does not mean you're not beautiful..beauty lies in the eye of the beholder..
2006-08-26 11:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only when you are young, when you get older men appreciate you for you...
Boys can be childish and shallow.. most grow up to be good men. (some are still shallow tho)
Have hope, he's out there!
2006-08-26 11:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because thinner girls are more attractive, and if there's no physical attraction there's nothing...
2006-08-26 11:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋