I lost my virginity to my husband. Should I play the field or wait again?

Question

I'm in my early 30's and newly divorced.

Answer 1

You need to fly to see me. I will help you get him out of your head, so you can move on with a better life than you ever imagined. Send me an email if you would like to know more.

Life is good, from this day forward.

Don't play the field yet.

Answer 2

Go on and at least *try* to wait. Of course, things will be different this time around when you're dating, but I think if you were able to wait the first time you can once again. You're probably not in the most stable emotional state right now coming out of a divorce and hopping into bed with the first willing guy will not improve that situation. I assume you're looking for a long-lasting and meaningful relationships this time around, so make that goal the focus of your new dating adventures!

Answer 3

AIDS!!! AIDS!!! AIDS!!! The field of play is litter with death traps. You got divorce,... you did not get stupid. Take time to rediscover yourself first. Work on those relationship issues that you are facing. Sex can wait and death from sex can happen faster then you would like. You are among the great unlearn out here, AIDS education is not high moral topic for public discussion has you can tell from the other responses. No one has mention the dangerous games people play with other people lives. If I scared you into doing the right thing...then my work is done here. If not AIDS is waiting for you. Goddess gave you a good mind use it for self worth not Sex.

Answer 4

I'm 27 and newly divorced, so I know where you're coming from!

Do what's going to be right for you not just today, but also later on. I know exactly how you're feeling, and man, I would've LOVED to just go sow some wild oats. However, I know myself, and I'm an uber-romantic who can't have sex without there being feelings there. So I didn't, because I knew I'd feel really badly about it later.

You know yourself best, so look at it in a long-term sense and do what you feel is best.

Congrats on being single again, and best of luck to you!

Answer 5

First, I would give myself time to heal from the divorce. Sometimes our curiosity and mixed feelings blind us after a break up or a divorce and we make hasty decisions and hasty decisions lead to unfortunate events or regrets many times. You don't want some guy getting in your pants that doesn't deserve you. You're worth more than that. You're worth more than just a one night stand. Sex is wonderful, but it's that much more when you share it with someone you really care about. Just my thought...I hope this helps...

Answer 6

play the field or wait again for what?
I suggest you go back to school. And if you're concerned about virginity get the cosmetic surgery done and be re-virgined.

Answer 7

Wait for what? Are you afraid to start new relation? Woman in their 30's are in the pick of their sexuality and doesn't make sense to weight to long ,but meaning full sexual relation are also not a big fun.

Answer 8

I am not saying that you should jump up and go and get some now, but eventually when you are ready your body will tell you and then yeah play the field, but only when you are ready. Don't do it because they want you to do it because you want to and you are ready emotionally and mentally

Answer 9

It depends on how ready you feel you are. It seems that because you've been with him physically and emotionally on such a high level, you should not push yourself into going into the dating field again until you feel like it's ready.

Answer 10

Do what feels the most comfortable to you. Playing the field can be fun though!