2006-08-26 10:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by trueblueaussies 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
When anyone mentions suicide, they should be taken seriously. She needs to be evaluated by a professional, with appropriate action taken. She is trying to control your behavior because she feels so out-of-control herself. She needs professional help.
2006-08-26 10:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has some mighty serious problems here. Problems YOU aren't qualified to help with. All you can do is be her friend, but she needs some proessional help. And soon. You can't any more cut off relationships with all your other friends......friends who I might point out are stable and normal and keep your feet on the ground and your head should be.....than yiou could cut of your own right arm. Any mentally stable person wouldn't ask you do to that. YOU can't be reponsible for her mental health OR the cure. And you can't feel guilty. YOU aren't to blame.
Do her parents know she has a problem? They are the ones who should be getting her help. Maybe a school counselor could sugges it to them if they haven't seem symptoms themselves.
2006-08-26 10:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not give in to her demands. This is manipulation and in some cases might be considered a form of abuse. Report what she's doing to the police, school counselor, whatever seems appropriate before this gets any worse. Remember you're not the one responsible if she does kill herself.
2006-08-26 12:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is a bit controlling, with all kinds of abandonment issues. You need to tell her that such behavior is not acceptable. If possible, she should seek counseling or a psychiatrist (if she hasn't already). You, however, can not let her control you in this fashion. First of all, what she's asking is unreasonable. Second, giving in to this sort of threat will only encourage it. What's next? "Give me all your money or I'll kill myself"?
If you can, you may want to consider distancing yourself from her; this is not a healthy relationship.
2006-08-26 10:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wordless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a psychologist or psychiatrist. This is manupulation, but it could also be true. I knew a person like that and she use to do it all the time to get attention... It worked many times, but the last time her friend did not believe it and when she got there it was too late. The person had taken pills... Like the other times and the person rushed to help...
This is serious. Pay attention.
2006-08-26 10:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that if she didn't cut out this kind of talk that you will contact the proper authorities because it's plain to see she is not in her right mind. A true friend would not say things like that.
2006-08-26 10:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by b's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may desire to get her help It doesnt count number what happens between you 2, you may desire to be sure she is risk-free. There a places and human beings that understand the thank you to handle this, how are you going to sense if she does kill herself, and you have got prevented it! Dont bypass to the college, tell your mum, tell her mum or yours or her older brother or sister. Whoever it relatively is over 18 and could get her suited care, in view which you neeed to try this, no count number if she needs it or no longer.
2016-12-11 15:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her family, they need to know that shes threatening such things. even if she is doing it for attention its not funny, it is a serious threat and her family (parents) need to know. She may get mad but in the long run she will understand that you are just being a good friend, Its better to loose her friendship then loose her life!! If she tells you after all of this that she was joking let her know that it is nothing to joke about~
2006-08-26 10:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you didnt state your sex? If this is a hetrosexual realtionship, I would make sure the woman got professional help
she needs some mental health issues addressed. Any be very caucious people like this often hurt them selves and others.
2006-08-26 10:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by susan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that either your friend is a QUEEN Manipulator or she may be very unstable and besides hurting herself, she may hurt you or other people as well. I would take her very serious and contact her folks or a teacher and disscuss it seriously with them.
Be careful!
2006-08-26 10:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by tek1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋