im like best friends with this girl and i have tried taking it to the next level but she cant take the hint do u think she doesnt like me or she's playing hard to get ?
2006-08-26 10:29:55 · 19 answers · asked by MR-MYSTERIOUS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been there before buddy. It sucks you like this girl for all the right resons, If you didnt she wouldnt be your friend. but the problem is shes your "friend" its hard as hell make a friend more then just a friend. this is what you need to do. Realize Time is on your side this isnt some thing you do over night. Get your A game on, I am assuming your both single if not you got to wait until she is but start taking her out were you would exspect to find cuples. Beach, Mall, City ex... Well having small talk let her know you are really looking for that right girl that you can start relationship with. Like if you see a couple and they look cute together be like "thats something I am looking for they look happy I want to find a girl that will make me happy." Let her know your talking long term girls like that. Then you got to kiss her dont be like can I kiss you or any thing like that. give 85% let her take 15%. meaning go for it but let her deside right before you tuch her lips if she wants to kiss you. If you get kissed then you just started a relationship. Then latter down the road ask were is this relationship going? Good Luck Bro!
one more thing dont lesson to the smucks that say shes not in to you. Be self cofident! Why are you going for it? Because shes worth it? Yes but also becouse your worth it. Are you going to spend the rest of your life wondering what if I...
2006-08-26 10:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by rebel_slash_hippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this friend doesn't get the hint because u 2 are so close. U really have to make sure u want to take it to the next level. Sometimes its better to just stay friends than to try and date and possibly lose her all together if it doesn't work out. Good Luck.
2006-08-26 17:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see sometimes the girls hesitate to take such things to next level. If she is really ur good friend then you should ask her directly rather than beating around the bush! Just let her know your feelings n tell her that you are...... for whatevr the reason is .
Simple hmm....
2006-08-26 17:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by silvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Spend more quality time with her, take her to a nice place to eat. Let her see a different side of you. Be patient and just be yourself. In the end she'll see your a good person and you can start a relationship together.
2006-08-26 17:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you be a little less subtle
not too aggressive, you dont need to scare her off
but sometimes we can be in denial when a guy is sending us signals, like
"no, he could not like me in that way, we're just friends"
but she might be up for it, try harder, i know i like a guy who makes the first move and since she's a friend if she does not feel the same, she'll spare your feelings when telling you so
good luck dude, spread the love!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-26 17:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. she might lyk u but she might not know if she's ready or not. try asking her out. and if she says no don't get offended. just be happy u tried and that she values ur relationship as a friend 2 much 2 destroy something good.
2006-08-26 17:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by mohican4lyf_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward with her and ask her instead of throwing hints how else will you know
2006-08-26 17:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready for the next level.
2006-08-26 17:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just is trying not to go into a relationship with you, she might not think of u in that way.also, the friendship might mean a lot and its really risky dating in such a good friendship.trying letting her know, and being honest with her.
2006-08-26 17:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by .nicole. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. That should make it clear to her. She could be trying to let you know that she's not interested in you without hurting your feelings.
2006-08-26 17:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋