Ok all...let me know what you think about this. My ex bf insists he wants to stay just friends, but gets the ache if I mention other guys and still thinks I am going to be a friend with benefits. He gets real jealous if he asks me if I have a date and I dont answer. WHY??
2006-08-26 10:23:23 · 14 answers · asked by Angelheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still holds a candle for you. His apparent friendliness is his way of remaining close to you but he is jealous of you with other guys. He has not let you go completely in his own mind and you will need to be firm with him to get him to take it on board. Do not expect impartial advice from him either as it will always be geared to how it best suits him and his views about you. Try it out and you will see what I mean.
Good Luck
2006-08-26 10:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mozzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want ya but doesn't want anyone else to have you either..
Plus guys hate to think that you'll meet someone more verile than them.. if he loved you he would be with you and treating you like the Goddess you are.
Quit contact with him until you are truly over him - and no friendly quickies - have some diginity. That way he gets his jollies but does not have to be faithful/commited to ya - both know you worth way more than that.
Best of luck anyways but next time he asks (if ya don't do the smart thing and quit contact for a bit) tell him you certainly do have a date and are soooooo looking forward to it.
You seem smart - you will meet someone better.
2006-08-26 10:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know you are there for him and only him butis afraid of committment....a lot of men are.....he is keeping his options open ifhe finds someone he deems better......in his little mindthen thats ok but if you meet someone better....and there are a lot better out there he starts to call the shots or at least tries to. Better off without this sort of insult ...you are worth a hellof a lot more. Cease contact and let him know the reason why.
2006-08-26 10:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still wants to have the same control over u that he had when u guys were together (just a guess)
get strong girl and put him in his place...so what if he goes in the huff when u mention dating other guys, if hes your mate hell be happy to hear your dating stories.
why are you still responding to his moods?
2006-08-29 09:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like animals although we don't really want a women anymore it takes a while for the smell to wear off. A bit like peeing to mark territory he didn't pee on you did he because it could take a while for it to wear off.
2006-08-26 10:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want a relationship with you, but he wants to know you're available for sex when he hasn't got anyone else to go to. If you can live with that - good luck to you - I couldn't.
2006-08-26 10:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to stay friends so he still gets a sh*g but he is too immature to bother with - tell him to get lost
2006-08-26 10:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he wants you for sex but wants to do what he wants with other women whilst you pine away waiting for him. Get rid of him...there's reasons he's your ex....remember?
2006-08-26 11:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to mind his own business what you do is nothing to do with him get out and enjoy yourself let him see what he threw away
2006-08-26 12:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's not the friend you think he is. He's a jerk pretending to be your friend.
2006-08-26 10:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋