was just in the car with my mom and she was yelling at me and telling me that i didnt matter to her, and how she cant handle me because im too emotional, well i have so much i want to say bck to her, but right now im to hurt to do anything ive been crying since she said that. i dont know what to do, i have a friend who said if im ever threatened by my paretns that she would take me in all i need to do is call, is this threatening?? What do i do, im only 13. O yea, my friend isnt 13 and my parents would no i was there, ive gone over there before in times like this
2006-08-26 10:14:21 · 7 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My dear, I am so sorry. I take it that this is not the first time that this has happened. If talking to your parents has failed to improve the situation, I suggest that you go to your school counselor. They have the training to help you They also know local laws & what local organizations may be able to help. Do not run away unless you feel that your life is in imediate danger. If so go to the police. They will help you.
2006-08-26 10:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Darma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your mom need to go to counseling to figure why she would say things like that. A lot times when people are stressed they say things they didn't mean. Now I don't know you and what kind of person you are but I don't think this counts as threatening. You could talk to this friend and if your mom really can't handle you maybe you could move in with this friend for a while. Good luck in what you decide.
2006-08-26 10:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by aluna86jh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some intervention. Is there a family member you could call? If you do not feel safe at home right now
then go stay at your friends house but call another member
of your family. Grandparents, aunt/uncle, someone. If this friend
is over 21 DO NOT STAY there long. Because you are 13 your
friend could get in alot of trouble. If you do not have a family member to call then call the police. Perhaps they can help you.
Good luck honey. Sounds like mom has alot on her plate and needs help herself. Good luck to you both.
2006-08-26 10:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes moms get frustrated too. This sounds like one of those times. Moms also get stuff like you do, PMS and stuff and they have bad days. When you both settle down, try to talk to your mom and tell her that she hurt your feelings. Talk about stuff that bothers you. We mothers like it very much when our girls and boys are honest with us. We arent perfect people and would like to know where we messed up.
This stuff is not a threat. It is a mom yelling, that's all.
Take care of yourself. I wish all daughters were as open as you are.
Cat
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2006-08-26 10:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your mom is having a very bad day. Parents aren't perfect. They say things they don't mean sometimes. Try talking to her when she is calm. Tell her that she hurt your feelings. It would be illegal to live with someone else unless your parents gave permission.
2006-08-26 10:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life will have ups and downs ....well if i were you i would show love towards them even if you dont want to and maybe little by little they will change
2006-08-26 10:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spill it girl
shut your stupid moms mouth.
give her your pecice of mind instead of just your stupid stuck up mom.
2006-08-26 10:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋